"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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FR: Has this girl been reading my posts??

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Went out on a second date with an HB 7, first date went really well, lots of making out, body rubbing, etc but no fvcking.

We go out, have a drink, playing pool and darts, end up leaving the place and she says "So what are we doing now?" And I say not sure let's see what's going on this way and start driving. So she doesn't say anything for a few minutes...and then she says "Honestly, I really want to fvck you. I'm not sure how you feel about that."...

I about crashed the car...never had a chick outright come out and say that in almost the same way I've said it before...like she has been reading my posts...

Either way we end up back at her place and I hammer her senseless for about 2 hours...

Who am I to argue with her? Lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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FR: Has this girl been reading my posts??

I doubt it. Every so often you'll meet a girl who just cuts right through the bllsh!t and does what she wants, opposed to what's expected of her. I know what you mean, it is a surprise the first time it happens.... you're like, 'Haaang on; there MUST be a catch here!'

It's a good measure of a man's skill set, how often this happens. Competent guys will only ever be taking women on one or two dates before getting physical.

As is said, when a woman is in to you, she'll make it very easy for you. It's one of the greatest feelings, when they just throw themselves at you. Good work.
 

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Second date and she's already direct like this? At the very least she would earn regular plate status with me. Keep seeing this chick and see how it turns out.
 

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2 of the last 3 girls I was with wanted sechs on the first date. The 3rd one wanted sechs on the second date. I spent plenty of time building comfort over the phone with all of them, but still I couldn't really believe it. I've never had it like this before.
 

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BTW there is something that turns me OFF when a chick tells me directly she wants to have sex. (when we're dating)

its like playing a sport game when the other guy lets you win, its fun, but it would feel better to f*ck her without her saying it so directly, anyone feels the same?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I've had a girl tell me this too. It was on the first date too.

After getting drinks, I suggested a movie but she was like "I just want you to fvck me. Let's go back to your place."

We'd barely been on the first date for more than twenty minutes. Lol.

Needless to say, I obliged.
 

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BTW there is something that turns me OFF when a chick tells me directly she wants to have sex. (when we're dating)

its like playing a sport game when the other guy lets you win, its fun, but it would feel better to f*ck her without her saying it so directly, anyone feels the same?
I've had those exact same thoughts too, but when it did happen, I just went ahead and had sex anyway. I figured I could either sit there mentally arguing with myself over her "letting me win" or I could blow my load on her tits. It was an easy decision for me.
 

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BTW there is something that turns me OFF when a chick tells me directly she wants to have sex. (when we're dating)

its like playing a sport game when the other guy lets you win, its fun, but it would feel better to f*ck her without her saying it so directly, anyone feels the same?
Wait a minute. This site is all about improving yourself to attract, date and have sex with women. Yet a lot of guys complain, bvtch and moan that after working out, joining clubs, learning languages, buying nice clothes, buying a new car, being outgoing, and making money, they still can't get a date and have sex with a girl. The girl won't even return their call after a nice first date.

Now when the girl says "I want to have sex with you." it's a turn off? What's our goal here? To have sex but to make it difficult for ourselves?

I think if the other party has all the cards and she agrees to something you want, you take it with full force. Any delay or hesitation may cost you.
 

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Wait a minute. This site is all about improving yourself to attract, date and have sex with women. Yet a lot of guys complain, bvtch and moan that after working out, joining clubs, learning languages, buying nice clothes, buying a new car, being outgoing, and making money, they still can't get a date and have sex with a girl. The girl won't even return their call after a nice first date.

Now when the girl says "I want to have sex with you." it's a turn off? What's our goal here? To have sex but to make it difficult for ourselves?

I think if the other party has all the cards and she agrees to something you want, you take it with full force. Any delay or hesitation may cost you.
Its not what i mean.
She can give the right signals without saying "i want you to **** me". If we are already in bed and she says it just for the dirty talk its more than fine, but if we sit in a bar and this sentence pops out, it kina makes this chick cheap to me.

Also, it doesnt mean i wont f*ck her, its just not as fun.
 

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She hasn't been reading your posts, don't get paranoid. Take a compliment as it is - you aroused her and vice versa. If you're a good looking guy of course females want you. ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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