"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Halloween fun in the city

Vanilla

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I wish Halloween happened everyday. It makes it so easy to break the ice by talking about costumes. Mix some alcohol and some slutty dressed women and you've got an epic holiday.

I planned to meet some buddies at a club downtown, but they never showed up, their loss. I chatted up with some people there anyways, good music good vibes. I ran into a group of girls dressed as cabaret girls. I missed out on one girl who was giving me serious eye contact. She couldn't stop staring at me. This other guy butted in and I wondered how you guys would've handled that. Is pvssy worth fighting over literally? He was much taller and heavier than me so it would've looked bad from my point of view, not to mention drunk people can get violent.

The whole night I tried pulling in random chicks, no dice. I was able to pull a number from an asian chick I was pursuing, so all was not lost. We had a few things in common which made her more attractive. Though I didn't make out nor get laid, I still had an enjoyable time and many memories. I'll just take what I learned from that night and do better next time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Yup it's all about fun!

Vanilla said:
I wish Halloween happened everyday. It makes it so easy to break the ice by talking about costumes. Mix some alcohol and some slutty dressed women and you've got an epic holiday.
Agreed :D
I planned to meet some buddies at a club downtown, but they never showed up, their loss. I chatted up with some people there anyways, good music good vibes. I ran into a group of girls dressed as cabaret girls. I missed out on one girl who was giving me serious eye contact. She couldn't stop staring at me. This other guy butted in and I wondered how you guys would've handled that. Is pvssy worth fighting over literally? He was much taller and heavier than me so it would've looked bad from my point of view, not to mention drunk people can get violent.
You established social proof that's great. Dude I had the same thing happen to me, chick looking hard, but it was so crowded I couldn't make my way. Never fight over a chick unless it's your mother and wife
I didn't make out nor get laid, I still had an enjoyable time and many memories. I'll just take what I learned from that night and do better next time.
I had to high-light that, too many guys forget what it's about. It's not about the end result but sometimes the experince you gained from it. It's about having fun!!

I've said this from my very first field report, and I'll continue to say it now. If you have fun, it makes the game more enjoyable and also enhances your experinces. I've had so many crazy experinces that didn't end in me getting laid or making out but I had fun!

Good FR

start a journal vanilla, i see you doing your thing

Solo
 

Vanilla

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I always live by the quote "Expect everything and receive nothing. Expect nothing and receiver everything", not sure who wrote it though. What I learn from that quote is if I go out there and my only mission is to get laid, it never happens. If I just have a good time, it comes around at me but I haven't learned to strike while the iron is hot ... yet.

I might do the journal thing. Good to know someone has been following me posts.

Cheers.

Solomon said:
I had to high-light that, too many guys forget what it's about. It's not about the end result but sometimes the experince you gained from it. It's about having fun!!

I've said this from my very first field report, and I'll continue to say it now. If you have fun, it makes the game more enjoyable and also enhances your experinces. I've had so many crazy experinces that didn't end in me getting laid or making out but I had fun!

Good FR

start a journal vanilla, i see you doing your thing

Solo
 
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