"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Halloween fun in the city

Vanilla

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I wish Halloween happened everyday. It makes it so easy to break the ice by talking about costumes. Mix some alcohol and some slutty dressed women and you've got an epic holiday.

I planned to meet some buddies at a club downtown, but they never showed up, their loss. I chatted up with some people there anyways, good music good vibes. I ran into a group of girls dressed as cabaret girls. I missed out on one girl who was giving me serious eye contact. She couldn't stop staring at me. This other guy butted in and I wondered how you guys would've handled that. Is pvssy worth fighting over literally? He was much taller and heavier than me so it would've looked bad from my point of view, not to mention drunk people can get violent.

The whole night I tried pulling in random chicks, no dice. I was able to pull a number from an asian chick I was pursuing, so all was not lost. We had a few things in common which made her more attractive. Though I didn't make out nor get laid, I still had an enjoyable time and many memories. I'll just take what I learned from that night and do better next time.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Solomon

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Yup it's all about fun!

Vanilla said:
I wish Halloween happened everyday. It makes it so easy to break the ice by talking about costumes. Mix some alcohol and some slutty dressed women and you've got an epic holiday.
Agreed :D
I planned to meet some buddies at a club downtown, but they never showed up, their loss. I chatted up with some people there anyways, good music good vibes. I ran into a group of girls dressed as cabaret girls. I missed out on one girl who was giving me serious eye contact. She couldn't stop staring at me. This other guy butted in and I wondered how you guys would've handled that. Is pvssy worth fighting over literally? He was much taller and heavier than me so it would've looked bad from my point of view, not to mention drunk people can get violent.
You established social proof that's great. Dude I had the same thing happen to me, chick looking hard, but it was so crowded I couldn't make my way. Never fight over a chick unless it's your mother and wife
I didn't make out nor get laid, I still had an enjoyable time and many memories. I'll just take what I learned from that night and do better next time.
I had to high-light that, too many guys forget what it's about. It's not about the end result but sometimes the experince you gained from it. It's about having fun!!

I've said this from my very first field report, and I'll continue to say it now. If you have fun, it makes the game more enjoyable and also enhances your experinces. I've had so many crazy experinces that didn't end in me getting laid or making out but I had fun!

Good FR

start a journal vanilla, i see you doing your thing

Solo
 

Vanilla

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I always live by the quote "Expect everything and receive nothing. Expect nothing and receiver everything", not sure who wrote it though. What I learn from that quote is if I go out there and my only mission is to get laid, it never happens. If I just have a good time, it comes around at me but I haven't learned to strike while the iron is hot ... yet.

I might do the journal thing. Good to know someone has been following me posts.

Cheers.

Solomon said:
I had to high-light that, too many guys forget what it's about. It's not about the end result but sometimes the experince you gained from it. It's about having fun!!

I've said this from my very first field report, and I'll continue to say it now. If you have fun, it makes the game more enjoyable and also enhances your experinces. I've had so many crazy experinces that didn't end in me getting laid or making out but I had fun!

Good FR

start a journal vanilla, i see you doing your thing

Solo
 
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