bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
The OP would just send you pics of his "workout partner" anyway....Solomon said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
FR: GYM Approaching Day 2 Leads to Confrontation!!!
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Rather than give me any advice i am just being mocked. No one has pointed out what exactly I did wrong in this thread.
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@gspshields2 : you didnt do what I said exactly you just used the opener and continued the rest on your way :
I told you after you ask her , watch her response if she was friendly or not , if yes move on the next conversation ,
the wrong thing in this approach you was too eager to take her number , all what you tried to do is pickup , you also added "hey" , that lower your status , a real man just ask his question .
did she just answered the question politely or she was friendly because you looked like moved to next step ?
also it is very clear you are trying to pickup her in this line , that is wrong , you should have just have conversation , like "your weights are so light , are you sure that works for you"
also you asked her for her number very very quickly , you have to build comfort and if possible attraction before that .
it seem your words scared her BF , I bet you reduced her interest rate in her boyfriend because he didnt dare to do what he told you he is going to do "kick your ass" .
but dont try it again , because was you did was socially unacceptable , you have to not talk about pickup and taking phone number openly to poeple , that will reduce your value.
only ask for phone after you have a nice conversation that both of you find it interesting
I told you after you ask her , watch her response if she was friendly or not , if yes move on the next conversation ,
the wrong thing in this approach you was too eager to take her number , all what you tried to do is pickup , you also added "hey" , that lower your status , a real man just ask his question .
did she just answered the question politely or she was friendly because you looked like moved to next step ?
here you are threatening her , she will feel pressure on herself even if you are smiling , women threat with smile a lot of time when they try to keep their image nice , so being smiling does not mean you wasn't serious for her
also it is very clear you are trying to pickup her in this line , that is wrong , you should have just have conversation , like "your weights are so light , are you sure that works for you"
also you asked her for her number very very quickly , you have to build comfort and if possible attraction before that .
it seem your words scared her BF , I bet you reduced her interest rate in her boyfriend because he didnt dare to do what he told you he is going to do "kick your ass" .
but dont try it again , because was you did was socially unacceptable , you have to not talk about pickup and taking phone number openly to poeple , that will reduce your value.
only ask for phone after you have a nice conversation that both of you find it interesting