bukowski_merit
Master Don Juan
The OP would just send you pics of his "workout partner" anyway....Solomon said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
FR: GYM Approaching Day 2 Leads to Confrontation!!!
- Thread starter gspshields2
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
gspshields2
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Rather than give me any advice i am just being mocked. No one has pointed out what exactly I did wrong in this thread.
evan12
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@gspshields2 : you didnt do what I said exactly you just used the opener and continued the rest on your way :
I told you after you ask her , watch her response if she was friendly or not , if yes move on the next conversation ,
the wrong thing in this approach you was too eager to take her number , all what you tried to do is pickup , you also added "hey" , that lower your status , a real man just ask his question .
did she just answered the question politely or she was friendly because you looked like moved to next step ?
also it is very clear you are trying to pickup her in this line , that is wrong , you should have just have conversation , like "your weights are so light , are you sure that works for you"
also you asked her for her number very very quickly , you have to build comfort and if possible attraction before that .
it seem your words scared her BF , I bet you reduced her interest rate in her boyfriend because he didnt dare to do what he told you he is going to do "kick your ass" .
but dont try it again , because was you did was socially unacceptable , you have to not talk about pickup and taking phone number openly to poeple , that will reduce your value.
only ask for phone after you have a nice conversation that both of you find it interesting
I told you after you ask her , watch her response if she was friendly or not , if yes move on the next conversation ,
the wrong thing in this approach you was too eager to take her number , all what you tried to do is pickup , you also added "hey" , that lower your status , a real man just ask his question .
did she just answered the question politely or she was friendly because you looked like moved to next step ?
here you are threatening her , she will feel pressure on herself even if you are smiling , women threat with smile a lot of time when they try to keep their image nice , so being smiling does not mean you wasn't serious for her
also it is very clear you are trying to pickup her in this line , that is wrong , you should have just have conversation , like "your weights are so light , are you sure that works for you"
also you asked her for her number very very quickly , you have to build comfort and if possible attraction before that .
it seem your words scared her BF , I bet you reduced her interest rate in her boyfriend because he didnt dare to do what he told you he is going to do "kick your ass" .
but dont try it again , because was you did was socially unacceptable , you have to not talk about pickup and taking phone number openly to poeple , that will reduce your value.
only ask for phone after you have a nice conversation that both of you find it interesting