"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: Flake date

nicenomore

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All right , I had asked for help on a date yesterday and this is what happened.....in short she flaked ,

in long:

We had planned to meet her at a cafe ...After 15 min of intended time , I text her wherther she is comming or not.. She texts back , where am I , and later texts that Ishould have waited for her text before comming for the date. I text her back , on whether shes comming or not? All right 15 min past , and no response from her , I walked out , texting her .." thanks for the date"

Have my exams 'round the corner , so just came back instead of hanging around......

Lesson learnt : always confirm your date......

Any other suggestions????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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nicenomore said:
All right , I had asked for help on a date yesterday and this is what happened.....in short she flaked ,

in long:

We had planned to meet her at a cafe ...After 15 min of intended time , I text her wherther she is comming or not.. She texts back , where am I , and later texts that Ishould have waited for her text before comming for the date. I text her back , on whether shes comming or not? All right 15 min past , and no response from her , I walked out , texting her .." thanks for the date"

Have my exams 'round the corner , so just came back instead of hanging around......

Lesson learnt : always confirm your date......

Any other suggestions????
Lesson learned: she was never interested in the first place and was just pulling your chain for her own gratification.
 
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