"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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All right , I had asked for help on a date yesterday and this is what happened.....in short she flaked ,

in long:

We had planned to meet her at a cafe ...After 15 min of intended time , I text her wherther she is comming or not.. She texts back , where am I , and later texts that Ishould have waited for her text before comming for the date. I text her back , on whether shes comming or not? All right 15 min past , and no response from her , I walked out , texting her .." thanks for the date"

Have my exams 'round the corner , so just came back instead of hanging around......

Lesson learnt : always confirm your date......

Any other suggestions????
 

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nicenomore said:
All right , I had asked for help on a date yesterday and this is what happened.....in short she flaked ,

in long:

We had planned to meet her at a cafe ...After 15 min of intended time , I text her wherther she is comming or not.. She texts back , where am I , and later texts that Ishould have waited for her text before comming for the date. I text her back , on whether shes comming or not? All right 15 min past , and no response from her , I walked out , texting her .." thanks for the date"

Have my exams 'round the corner , so just came back instead of hanging around......

Lesson learnt : always confirm your date......

Any other suggestions????
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Lesson learned: she was never interested in the first place and was just pulling your chain for her own gratification.
 
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