"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: First date, kiss on cheek, post-date text

supCALI

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Had a pretty good first date tonight. Picked the girl up at her parents' house, didn't end up meeting them - texted her when I left that I'd call her when I'd pull up and sure enough when I called she was right out the door. Went to the first restaurant I was going to take her to but it was super crowded with people waiting outside so I suggested we split and go to another restaurant and she agreed. Sat across from her in a booth; conversation went smoothly, I qualified her and made her laugh but I regrettably didn't apply any kino. As we were walking to the car she goes "you're cool, you should call me again, we should drink" and I simply said "yeah". Drove her back to her place after a little over 2 hours together and she says I should park the car to talk, we're sitting there and she finishes her story. Tells me to call her again. I ask her if she wants me to walk her to the door (shouldn't have asked permission) but she says "it's okay, I just don't want my dad to see". She thanked me and kind of turned her body/face to the side where one side was parallel with the car seat and I kissed her on the cheek and she said "thanks for the kiss" and I bid her good night and drove off. Seems like I missed an opportunity, should I have put my hand on the side of her face and led her into the kiss?

Got a text from her about an hour after dropping her off saying "Thanks for taking me out!" and it's been almost 2 hours and I haven't replied yet. I'm not even sure what to say yet, guess I was put off by the cheek kiss.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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ARrocket

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You guys sound pretty young (at least she does), so no worries man.

"Let's drink" = "let's get freaky, but only if you can make it happen" (not rape).

Some more kino next time, some alcohol for the two of you (not too much), and have fun :up:
 

supCALI

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ARrocket said:
You guys sound pretty young (at least she does), so no worries man.

"Let's drink" = "let's get freaky, but only if you can make it happen" (not rape).

Some more kino next time, some alcohol for the two of you (not too much), and have fun :up:
Thanks man; we are pretty young, I'm 20 and she's 18. Will definitely go for more kino and a lil booze next time. Just responded to her thank you text an hour ago saying "my pleasure".
 
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