"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Finally did it

Bryce556

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I had sex for the first time !!!! it was kinda awkward cause it was her first time too and we couldent "fit" it in. couldent find a good postion either. but in the end it was great :D. did it in my bed then took a shower together afterwards.

so now onwards to become even more DJ! that was a good confidence boost.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Quiksilver

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Good stuff man, first time is always a little awkward.

This doesn't qualify as a Field Report though.. You have to tell readers How you got to that stage, what your strong points were, and what your sticking points are.

cheers
 

jafyk

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Oh boy now we're in trouble. Warning: "Fathers hide your daughters Bryce is no longer a virgin"
 
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