"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: Finally did it

Bryce556

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I had sex for the first time !!!! it was kinda awkward cause it was her first time too and we couldent "fit" it in. couldent find a good postion either. but in the end it was great :D. did it in my bed then took a shower together afterwards.

so now onwards to become even more DJ! that was a good confidence boost.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Quiksilver

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Good stuff man, first time is always a little awkward.

This doesn't qualify as a Field Report though.. You have to tell readers How you got to that stage, what your strong points were, and what your sticking points are.

cheers
 

jafyk

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Oh boy now we're in trouble. Warning: "Fathers hide your daughters Bryce is no longer a virgin"
 
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