"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: f-closed LJBF chick that I've known for 6 years

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Gentlemen,

Last night I experienced one of my most satisfying f-closes ever!

Quick background:

Known this chick for 6 years, there has always been an attraction, but nothing apart from the ad-hoc kissing had happened in the past. Both of us have seen other people in the past 6 years, but I'd been dying to f-close her since I first met her.

This chick is a HB8.5, blond wavy hair down below her shoulders, size 8, very stunning.

Last week:

Her (sms): do you wanna do dinner/bar/club on next thursday?
me (sms): sure, lets do dinner/bar. I have work the next day.
her (sms): cool, well lets see what happens. i'm looking after my ex-boyfriend's place while he is away. so you can crash here if you want.

So....

Last night we meet up, we do drinks, i laid down some serious NLP on her. I told her she was my "pivot" and she had to help me pick up women.

She only enjoyed this for the first couple of sets, but then the competative characteristics came out and before I knew it, she had her toungue down my throat!

The look on the barman's face was priceless as we had told him we were cousins earlier! :p

So, the evening went on. Even though she was showing interest, I still made her work hard for my attention by opening a couple more sets infront of her, only to have her come and drag me away.

We left the club, went back to her ex's place. Really nice place in a posh part of London. The guy is a total ass-hole so I didnt really feel bad about being there.

To cut the story short, I f-closed her there and then on the sofa for almost 2 hours.

Got a bit freaked out when she started crying afterwards, but it was happy tears. (PHEW!)

So..... I got to sleep at 6:15am, and had to be up at 9am for work. I'm still a little drunk, but who cares! I'm just buzzing!

2006 is gonna be a good year!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Great post dude. I know exactly what you are feeling right now and its fuvking awesome. I had a similar experience last night and I feel like I can pick-up Jessica Alba if I saw her this week.
 

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Size 8? Dress sizes vary quite a bit. What are her circumferences and how tall is she?
 

Fash

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Size 8 in the UK is quite slim. Model kinda slim.

She is 5'7", blonde, half italian, half greek. I'll see if I can upload a photo.

:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Distant Light

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Nice job

btw both those girls are pretty nice
 

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Cheers Man! Good Sh!t... :cool:

Pretty good lookin chicks...

I say you tag the other one now...

then gettem both... hehehee


Happy New Years'

SuaveOn'
-DarkLight-


P.S. Well played w. the Pivot scenario. That would bring out any chicks insecurities/claws.
 

Fash

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Originally posted by DarkLight


I say you tag the other one now...

Already did, xmas eve 2 years ago. :D

Now getting them both at the same time???? highly unlikely but a nice thought! :rolleyes:
 

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L777

are you the guy in the picture? I pictured some1 called Fash to be a big black dude, like John 'Fash' Fashnu.

Anyway, good on ya and happy new year!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Good show, old chap. Well done!
 

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You seriously think that "serious NLP" got her? :D I beg to differ. I think that the competitiveness was all that was needed. I almost think she had it all planned out (her ex was out of town, she "planted" the idea in your head by "suggesting" that you crash at his place, and asking you out for drinks) However your approach has it's merits. She did her part and you did yours, but I seriously doubt that it was all you.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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that's the ultimate conquest, man. ridding yourself of the LJBF is one of the most difficult things a guy can do.


i've got an old LJBF coming down for mardi gras and i had planned on doing pretty much exactly what you did. use her as a pivot and make her kick up the competition. if i get to pound it, great. if not, it's mardi gras, there will be tons and tons of prospects, i'm guaranteed a lay anyway.
 

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muahahaha, the LJBF->FWB conversion is underway

she called me up to talk about mardi gras, and i told her how she could get free drinks. (go flirt with a guy and get him to buy her a drink.)
her: "i wouldn't want to do that, i'm going to be there to spend time with you."
me: "well then i guess you'll just be thirsty while you're here. i make girls earn their drinks."
her: "well i bet i can earn them."


i gotta give credit to fash though, this LJBF->FWB conversion is already harder than any DJ game I've ever laid down.
 

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Originally posted by reyalp
i gotta give credit to fash though
Na....

Its all you man. Just remeber, although f-closing a slightly drunk chick is kinda against the DJ rules, when it comes to an LJBF, it kinda helps! :cheer:
 

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Awesome pics there Fash! Nothing better than a FR with pics!

Although I kinda disagree about the blonde being an 8.5... To me she is a 7 at best.
 

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NeonBase said:
Awesome pics there Fash! Nothing better than a FR with pics!

Although I kinda disagree about the blonde being an 8.5... To me she is a 7 at best.

Nothing like E-ratings.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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