"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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First let me say that nothing bad can every happen from you doing crazy things. Example one!

Me and my bud got a break in our usually busy day, and decided to go out sargin. First stop was a little stop in our town where there are most always some good looking ladies (2 8s and a 7) as well as a few resturaunts. It was just 2 resturaunts and 1 store nest to each other, with a small parking lot out front. This time, however, there went any. As we walk back to the car and open the doors, we see a car pull in. Instinctivly we both look in, and watch as 3 girls get out. I give a quick look to my friend who says "lets go" followed by "Hey, do I know that girl?" Anyways, my friend approaches as I follow. Introductions follow, and it turns out that I know one of the girls too.

Some fluff talking and a dinner with the girls, they had all but decided in hanging out with my friend at their house because I had to be somewhere to be in a half an hour and I couldnt cancel. They were going to stop by a store because someone they knew worked there, and my friend would be meeting with them later. Anyways, we walk to our car, and since the parking lot is right in front of the store they went into, we could see them walking around in there. My friend wanted to wait for them anyways to ask them something, but didnt want to go into the store.

"What the hell is taking them so long?" My bud asks. I didnt know, but they were women in a store, this could take a while.

What else could be done in a parking lot with a car that has a decent stereo system? I sure as hell didnt want to sit in the car. Result was me cranking a good song, opening the doors so the music could be heard, and breakdancing in the middle of the parking lot. (It was a small lot) My friend doesnt know how to do any 'solo' dances, so it was just me.

Partway through my last set, I saw the girls walking towards their car. They were going to ditch us (or more my friend then anything). Once one of them caught sight of me dancing all 3 came back over to my car. I motioned I would only be a second since in the process a few people came up to me to ask me about breakdancing and to tell me they liked it. Anyways, I proceeded to get the number of the 2 girls I just met, where they grabbed my phone from me to put their numbers in. The one girl I did know asked me repeatedly if I still had her number in my cell. They also asked when I was free that night so we could hang out. High IL? :p

I ended up not calling them when I was free, becuase I was in a fight with my parents, but when I gave one of the girls a call, they said they couldnt do anything the day I called but asked me for about 10 minutes when I was free that weekend.

I did something completly random, and it ended up netting me 2 #'s, and they have a VERY high IL, and the only risk was my pride to do something completly random :)

Plus, if anything, learning a dance like breakdancing is never a bad thing. Gals love it, and most time they will want you to teach them. :)
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Sh1t, it took me 5 months to learn how to windmill. I can do some basic moves like glide, handspin, easy stuff like that. I never got serious about it, I just always though that it was some cold ass sh1t. So just learn to do it so I knew how it felt.

Anyway I go out with some of my buddies from work, got really drunk. Next day, my friends were like man you were gone, I look over at the dance floor and see you spinning with you legs in the air, the people were loving it. Good thing it was an 21-30 age crowd because I would of probably got shown up it there were kids there. All I remember was some girl saying show me what you got.

Not a bad thing to know how to do.
 

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haha tight another bboy on the site
 

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Hell yea, thats how I do, Liquidpop and Bboying :)
 
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