“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR: Daytime PU in Sunset Restaurant

Pap

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After ordering food,
Style, Alphamale, Real Estate Agent, and I get a table outside.
Suddenly, my Real Estate agent leans over to me and whispers:

RealEstateAgent: You know, I saw SHBHotelHeiress walk inside the
restaurant. I think she's ordering a burrito.
Papa: [I start looking around, thinking, "Hmmmm."] Really? [I scan
around and see dudes in the parking lot staring through the window
of the restaurant, and one guys says, "Hey, is that
SHBHotelHeiress?"]
Style: Hey, if you are going to walk over there, don't look in her
direction.
Papa: Alright, it's playtime.

I get up and walk into the restaurant and I see a hot blonde check
getting salsa, so I think to myself, "Salsa sounds good to me." I've
been gearing up my Game to this moment and now it's time to take
what I deserve. So I walk over to her side and pretend like I'm just
at the salsa bar by coincidence and lean over my shoulder for a
second, look back at the salsa, and then start the conversation.

Papa: Hey, I need a female opinion on something?
Paris: [smiles and looks up] Ok.
Papa: Would you date a guy who was still friends with his ex-
girlfriend?
Paris: Yeah. I think so. Sure.
Papa: [I pivot my back a little to do a mini-takeaway, then I turn
back to her and continue the convo] Hmmm. Actually, this is a two
part question.
Paris: [smiles and giggles]
Papa: Imagine you were dating a guy who was still friends with his
ex-girlfriend, and you were going to move in with him, but he had a
drawer with pictures of his ex-girlfriend, not nudie pics or
anything, just pics…and some letters.
Paris: Ooooh. I would so get rid of them. I would put them in a box…
Papa: [I cut her off and continue with the opener] Do you think it's
unreasonable for her to want him to get rid of those pics?
Paris: Oh, for sure. I dated a guy with the same situation and I
tossed them.
Paris: Wow! The reason why I asked was because I have a friend in
the same situation, and she burned them.
Paris: Yes. That's what I should have done. [smiles]
Papa: Hmm. Cool. [Finishes getting more salsa and SHBHotelHeiress
takes her salsa containers and moves as if she is going to walk
away] Hey, you know, you look like a little cartoon version of
Britney Spears. Oh, maybe it's just your teeth.
Paris: [puts her salsa container back on the table, looks at me, and
smiles]
Papa: Yeah! You have Britney Teeth. Well, that's what my ex-
girlfriend said at least. I mean she says that girls that have teeth
like you have good girl teeth because girls like Britney, no matter
how many guys they hookup with, she still has the good girl rap…I
mean she's probably hooked up with Justin Timberlake and many others…
however, she still has the reputation as a version. Now, you have
the same kind of C-cupped teeth.
Paris: [excited and smiling] Oh, yeah?!?
Papa: Hey, I mean, just look at the smiles of the cover girls on
magazines, and they have the same kind of teeth…well, at least that
what she said. She even got surgery done to her teeth because she
had U-cupped teeth, like Christina Aguilera, so she thinks that's
why she got the bad girl reputation, in order to get C-cupped
Britney Spears teeth to look more like a good girl.
Paris: [smiles] Wow.

We walk over the counter of the Mexican Food Restaurant and she
grabs her food and I act as if I'm going to leave, but don't think
I'm going to leave SHBHotelHeiress without proper game. I look over
my shoulder and continue the conversation:

Papa: I have an intuition about you.
Paris: What? She puts her food down and looks at me]
Papa: You know, I can tell you deep insights about you just by
asking you 3 questions.
Paris: Oh, yeah?
Papa: Yeah. Here's come over to this table.
Paris: Ok. Sure.

I sit down at a nearby table and she comes over, places her food on
the table, and sits down to join me. When she sat down to join me
and smiled, I knew I was set and that it was time to work solid
game. For the next 10-15 minutes, we shared some stories about
Hollywood, talked about commonalities, and I combined most of the
set with qualifying, leading the conversation with patterns, and
some social-proofed higher value stories.

Papa: Well, my friend wrote this book on this fascinating
visualization technique called the Cube. He's over there right now
and we just finished going shopping for a house over there [pointing
in the direction of the Hollywood Hills] and I've finally got one.
I've been living in a hotel for the last 10 weeks. Ugh.
Paris: Oh yeah! Which one?
Papa: The Furama.
Paris: [nods] Yeah, I live right up the street on Kings Street.
Papa: Cool. I was looking at a place just a couple blocks on Kings
Street, but I found a place I want that's perfect for me up off
Woodwill Wilson. It's a great place and I already have so much heart
for it. My friend Style and I are already talking about having after
parties there for after the Grammy's and making it a great place for
after-parties.
Paris: Cooool.
Papa: Ok. Are you ready for the Cube?
Paris: Yes. Sure. [smiles]
Papa: [escalating the Yes Ladder] Before I need to ask you a few
questions. Are you intelligent?
Paris: Yes.
Papa: Are you intuitive?
Paris: Yes.
Papa: Do you have a good imagination?
Paris: Yes.
Papa: Ok. Great! We'll continue then. Imagine you were driving in
the desert and you see a cube. How big is the cube?
Paris: It's really big!
Papa: How big is that?
Paris: As big as a hotel.
Papa: [I pretend not to acknowledge knowing that she is a Hilton…and
she just referred to a hotel…ha] Hmm. Interesting. Ok. So, what
color is it?
Paris: Pink.
Papa: Cool. Is it something that you can see through or is it solid?
Paris: You can see right through it.
Papa: Rock on! Now, let's add a ladder. Where is the ladder in
relation to the cube?
Paris: It's leaning against the cube, going into the middle of it.
Papa: Ah! I would have expected you to say that.
Paris: Yeah. [smiles and giggles]
Papa: Yeah. So, let's add one more thing to your picture. Let's add
a horse. Where is the horse in relation to everything in your
picture?
Paris: It's sleeping.
Papa: Where is it sleeping?
Paris: In front of the cube?
Papa: Wow. Interesting. [pauses] Ok. Are you ready to find out what
all of this mean? [pause] It doesn't mean anything! No, just
kidding. The cube represents what you think of yourself. It's your
ego. Now, your cube is pretty big. You have a lot of self-
confidence. It's not super-huge. I mean, it's not like you have a
huge ego, but you definitely carry yourself with a lot of
confidence. It's definitely not a small cube [making my fingers into
a small thing] like a pair of dice. Also, your cube is pink.
Paris: Yeah. That's my favorite color.
Papa: Well, pink is also a color that is playful, bright, and it's
because you carry yourself with the same kind of energy. You are the
kind of person that really likes to have fun and party, but you are
also the kind of person who just enjoys being in other people's
company.
Paris: Yes.
Papa: And your cube is something that you can see right through.
Now, that represents how people interact with you too because you
are the kind of person who even when people first meet you, they can
see right through you. You really connect with people and that's
sooo cool because that means they can get to know you pretty
quickly. You are also probably a pretty social being. Do you have a
lot of friends?
Paris: Yes.
Papa: I would have expected that because you are the kind of person
who even if you have only just met someone, you feel like you have
known this person for several hours. That's great because you are
the kind of person who always have these great new opportunities
popping up right in front of you and you are able take advantage of
these opportunities before they disappear. And that rocks.
Paris: What's your name?
Papa: Nick. What's your name?
Paris: Paris.
Papa: Rock on. I feel like we have so much to talk about.
Paris: Yes.
Papa: We should definitely party it up together sometime.
Paris: Yes. We should.
Papa: Here. [takes out his Clie and gives SHBHotelHeiresshis Clie
pen]
Paris: [SHBHotelHeiresswrites down her first name and last name on
the clie and hands the clie to Papa expecting impress him and get a
wow response, but Papa ignores knowing the SHBHotelHeiress is
anybody]
Papa: Here.
Paris: Ok. Write it down right here?
Papa: Yes.
Paris: [she writes down her phone number] This is my cell phone.
Papa: Cool.
Paris: Yeah. We should definitely meet up.
Papa: Yeah. Rock on. I'll see ya, kid.

I walk back to see the boys at the table outside.

Style: Nice job, man. Nobody give Papa a high-five or acknowledge
it, but she might see it. Well done, bro.
Alphamale: High five, bro.
Real Estate Agent: Nice, man. What happened?

I explain to the boys what happened. This rocks. I know that this is
the way things are going to be. It just makes sense that I would
roll with SHBHotelHeiress as I am in Project Hollywood. Mystery,
this is my set so hands off when SHBHotelHeiress comes by the crib
to see Papa. I'm excited! I finish talking real estate business with
the boys, and then chill with the Real Estate agent afterwards to
celebrate at a bar to watch a turtle race and a get beer.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Just one question. Do you have a tape recorder with you recording all of these magical conversations with these women? Cause if you don't you have the memory of a genius. Not. You are such a fraud. Please take all of your made up stories and drum up publicity for your multiple websites elsewhere. This is really getting ridiculous.
 

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Pap,

Good work....sir. Which restaurant was it, if you don't mind me asking? I went to quite a few on Sunset while I was there.

Anyway, definitely post an update to this. I'm getting the vibe that she was either a) very shy, or b) only half interested. If your script was exact, it didn't sound like she asked many questions, or was very outgoing. Which doesn't necessarily mean she wasn't interested; but generally girls will ask some questions and say a few things to you if they like you, so that you don't get the impression that they are blowing you off. How old was this girl approximately?

I think that if this WAS a successful PU, which we'll find out in the next few days, it was because you carried yourself with a certain energy. You were excited about sarging, and picking this chick up and that showed through in your actions. You asked questions, you showed a sincere interest in her; she felt that vibe. Plus the fact that she liked the way you looked.

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I combined most of the
set with qualifying, leading the conversation with patterns, and
some social-proofed higher value stories."


Papa, I really, truely believe that she liked you and the energy that you were radiating. I don't think it was any pattern, or qualifying. What THOSE things did, was give you something to talk about. If you can shift your confidence from being confident in the methods, and routines - to being confident that YOU were the one who was attractive the whole time - I think you'll have a lot more fun with a lot less pressure producing a lot better results.

If you would have spoken to her, and had things to say, and still lead her through the conversation until she felt comfortable with you; I'm willing to bet that she would have given you the number just as quick without the patterns, and qualifying. Give it a try sometime but make SURE that you're in the same mood, and have the same great energy that you had in this particular pick-up. Heh, oh yeah, and do it when TD, and Mystery, and those guys are not around so that you don't feel pressured or take heat about it for defying the church of Mystery.

Talk to you soon.

Jim
 

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Xblitx, that story of Paps is either made up or it happened years ago and he added some major parts to it to embellish it. I mean, how many different stories as he added to this forum in the last 3 days--20? And they are all very long and very specific about what each person said. Righttttt. This didnt just happen to him last night. I've seen him on another forum posting the exact same things, and that was months ago. He's just posting to get some publicity for his websites, of which he has multiple. Its your choice whether you believe all his propoganda.

He did this back in May too, added a bunch longggg posts in a couple of days all publizicing his website at the end of each post. Then..he dissapeared till now.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Echo, nice assumptions, dude. Like I said, you are so cool. ANyways, Echo, obviously you don't read mASF so you are kill-filed, which means, I'm ignoring your posts as you post nothing useful.

Jim thanks for the props.

Anyways, if you want to ask if it happened, email Style from MASF as he was there dude...and it happened last week.

I followed up with a phone call and didn't leave a message as her voice message was full. we plan to party it up together for Project Hollywood, which is something that Mystery and I have been planning and talking about on mASF for a year.

I talked to one of TheONe's friends, who is a friend of Paris and also in the Scene and it looks good as she'll put some good words in for me...and regardless of whether I get Paris or not, her friends are really hot and I'm sure just knowing her will be great for social proof, whether she becomes a F*** buddy or a pivot.

I'm really excited about Project HOllywood and the stories to come and I'm sure I'll be posting some of my fav's here too.
 

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Dude your a lieing bastard.


But if your not, mad props man, mad props.
 

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Bro, thanks for the props as it's true. Like I said, go to mASF (Fastseduction.com) and talk to the guys there if you want references as I've met several hundred guys from the board IRL that can vouch for me telling the truth about my FRs; plus Style from mASF (whose email you can find on the board) was there.
 
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You guys have no IDEA who Papa is. This is not bull****. Most of this recent stuff has been posed on mASF a year ago. They are just reposts. If you think Papa is full of ****, ring him up and wing with him, I am sure all you guys would learn from him and the rest fo the Myster Method crew. Quit *****ing, loose the fake internet ego and learn. Peace.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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AMAZING coincidence...Hmmm something is wrong.

in Australia, it's racing week at the moment and they always bring down International models to promote it.

Anyway, there is a daily comedy/interview show about the carnival with Roy and HG (you might remember them from the Olympics)

They had on two guests, Paris Hilton and her sister. I didn't know who the hell she was, just some random model but the name was distinctive.

And now I'm reading this POST! She has been here for a week so I'm doubting this happened.

But she does live in LA, had nice teeth, and did seem pretty shy and stupid...which explains her lack of contribution to your pickup...if it was true.

It was so funny when the boys asked her, "What would you look for in a man?" She said all girly-like, "Nice, sweet and cute". And they went, "Awwwww"

Heh she was such a simple girl. But I thought she was damn hot and mad props to you if you did get her number.

So weird coincidence hey, i figured that there are not many blonde models from LA named Paris Hilton...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

Read more...

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