"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: Daygame in NYC - 2 instadates

Rocky_Wayne

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Hey guys first post under this name. I used to be a member a year ago but forgot my user name so here i am again. This time with a lot more experience :) I went out to the times square area to do some approaches. I did about 4 or 5 but here are the ones that went well:

1) . Approached a hb8 blonde inside grand central. Open with "do you know where theres a starbucks" she told me and I commented on her accent. Shes a uk tourist leaving tomorrow. 5 minute convo ensues. Did a high five then hugged her because she visited a country i been to. She was waiting for her friend so i bounced her to the apple store because i needed their free wifi service, then bounced her outside of the station for a walk towards times square. We talked for a bit more then she had to meet up with her friend who was nearby ( a guy) I gave her a kiss the european way (on both cheeks). Then she said "Oh i thought you were going to do three kisses" I'm pretty sure this meant she wanted a kiss on the lips? It caught me totally by surprise I just laughed and then she said goodbye. I felt like a total idiot after that. This has happened to me once before during night game, also with a european girl, and i also froze. I think after this time it has cemented into my mind that next time a girl says this to me I will go for the makeout and I think i know how i will do that. I'll say "wait girl im not done yet... close your eyes" then makeout. One thing I did good was my kino and matching her vibe. Overall good experience with a powerful lesson.

2) Still feeling a little regretful about the UK girl I approached a hb7 asian girl at the park. I saw her taking pics so i opened by asking her what kind of camera that was. I dont know **** about cameras. We got into some convo. After 5 minutes I took her to the tables near by to sit down. Chat for about 15 minutes. Then I took her to a Starbucks nearby. I then told her about my place and how i've rearranged it to make it awesome. I then told her to walk with me. Told her "Give me your hand so i dont lose you" and took her hand. She complied. We walked to my place. Went upstairs and she didnt say anything about it. We chatted on the couch and i went for the makeout but no go, went for the eskimo kiss and she complied but no kiss. Tried 3 times in total, on the last try she told that she only does that to boyfriends, at that point it was a lost cause plus her friend started calling her (she was supposed to pick her up) so I just walked her out. When i said bye however i managed to get a peck. Whatever I wont see her again. Main lesson here I should try to go for the makeout more smoothly. I'm used to night game makeouts, i feel like daygame makeouts need more build up kino wise?
One thing i did good here was not mentioning that im taking her to my place and just taking her there, but talking about how cool my place is first.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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jurry

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Haha wtf thats impressive man.. duno why she would let you take her back to your place and then not kiss you? I always hear the day game approach should be to get the number and make the date for a different time. But I like your approach like fvck it lets just have the date now why waste time?
 

gravityeyelids

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that is cool that she came back with you and just stopped you when she wanted to stop. Most girls aren't that trusting.

I dont know if this is true as i've never really gamed an asian girl...but i hear they are very submissive and compliant.
 

Rocky_Wayne

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jurry said:
Haha wtf thats impressive man.. duno why she would let you take her back to your place and then not kiss you? I always hear the day game approach should be to get the number and make the date for a different time. But I like your approach like fvck it lets just have the date now why waste time?
After so many flakes i just try to close the deal the same day now. Havent been able to do a same day fclose yet but i know people do it consistently and those girls are waaay more likely to see you again.
 

Rocky_Wayne

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gravityeyelids said:
that is cool that she came back with you and just stopped you when she wanted to stop. Most girls aren't that trusting.

I dont know if this is true as i've never really gamed an asian girl...but i hear they are very submissive and compliant.
Yes they are submissive for the most part. I like gaming asians because if they dont like you they will run away as opposed to other types of girls who stay there to be nice but waste your time. However asians, if they like you, are very easy to game so they are not a good measurement of skill.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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