"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: Daygame in NYC - 2 instadates

Rocky_Wayne

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Hey guys first post under this name. I used to be a member a year ago but forgot my user name so here i am again. This time with a lot more experience :) I went out to the times square area to do some approaches. I did about 4 or 5 but here are the ones that went well:

1) . Approached a hb8 blonde inside grand central. Open with "do you know where theres a starbucks" she told me and I commented on her accent. Shes a uk tourist leaving tomorrow. 5 minute convo ensues. Did a high five then hugged her because she visited a country i been to. She was waiting for her friend so i bounced her to the apple store because i needed their free wifi service, then bounced her outside of the station for a walk towards times square. We talked for a bit more then she had to meet up with her friend who was nearby ( a guy) I gave her a kiss the european way (on both cheeks). Then she said "Oh i thought you were going to do three kisses" I'm pretty sure this meant she wanted a kiss on the lips? It caught me totally by surprise I just laughed and then she said goodbye. I felt like a total idiot after that. This has happened to me once before during night game, also with a european girl, and i also froze. I think after this time it has cemented into my mind that next time a girl says this to me I will go for the makeout and I think i know how i will do that. I'll say "wait girl im not done yet... close your eyes" then makeout. One thing I did good was my kino and matching her vibe. Overall good experience with a powerful lesson.

2) Still feeling a little regretful about the UK girl I approached a hb7 asian girl at the park. I saw her taking pics so i opened by asking her what kind of camera that was. I dont know **** about cameras. We got into some convo. After 5 minutes I took her to the tables near by to sit down. Chat for about 15 minutes. Then I took her to a Starbucks nearby. I then told her about my place and how i've rearranged it to make it awesome. I then told her to walk with me. Told her "Give me your hand so i dont lose you" and took her hand. She complied. We walked to my place. Went upstairs and she didnt say anything about it. We chatted on the couch and i went for the makeout but no go, went for the eskimo kiss and she complied but no kiss. Tried 3 times in total, on the last try she told that she only does that to boyfriends, at that point it was a lost cause plus her friend started calling her (she was supposed to pick her up) so I just walked her out. When i said bye however i managed to get a peck. Whatever I wont see her again. Main lesson here I should try to go for the makeout more smoothly. I'm used to night game makeouts, i feel like daygame makeouts need more build up kino wise?
One thing i did good here was not mentioning that im taking her to my place and just taking her there, but talking about how cool my place is first.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jurry

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Haha wtf thats impressive man.. duno why she would let you take her back to your place and then not kiss you? I always hear the day game approach should be to get the number and make the date for a different time. But I like your approach like fvck it lets just have the date now why waste time?
 

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that is cool that she came back with you and just stopped you when she wanted to stop. Most girls aren't that trusting.

I dont know if this is true as i've never really gamed an asian girl...but i hear they are very submissive and compliant.
 

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jurry said:
Haha wtf thats impressive man.. duno why she would let you take her back to your place and then not kiss you? I always hear the day game approach should be to get the number and make the date for a different time. But I like your approach like fvck it lets just have the date now why waste time?
After so many flakes i just try to close the deal the same day now. Havent been able to do a same day fclose yet but i know people do it consistently and those girls are waaay more likely to see you again.
 

Rocky_Wayne

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gravityeyelids said:
that is cool that she came back with you and just stopped you when she wanted to stop. Most girls aren't that trusting.

I dont know if this is true as i've never really gamed an asian girl...but i hear they are very submissive and compliant.
Yes they are submissive for the most part. I like gaming asians because if they dont like you they will run away as opposed to other types of girls who stay there to be nice but waste your time. However asians, if they like you, are very easy to game so they are not a good measurement of skill.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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