Okay, it wasn't really a date from hell... but it was something that kind of crippled my ego a bit.
So I met this girl from online yesterday, get her on the phone immediately and set up plans to meet up today. I pick this girl up at her highschool and things are going pretty well. I'd rate her maybe a 7, she was cute and had a nice body. Things start off well... we have some good conversations, a few good laughs and I start off immediately being C+F with her and extremely confident.
We head to my car and before we get in the car I tell her, "okay, now before we go anywhere I have a few simple rules... #1, i have to be having fun at ALL times. if i'm not having fun, then i'm just going to want to go home. and #2, you must have respect for my time, and my property." She agree's to the rules... agree's they're fair, and then I say "oh yeah, one more rule... i hope you enjoy Greek music!". Okay, so we head to the mall because I have to pick some stuff up and run some errands. The car ride was fun and I busted on her a bit and everything was going fine. Then we get to the mall and she is complaining from before that her feet was hurting, so she says for me to park as close to the mall as possible. Instead, I park as far away from the mall as I can... lol. When we're in the mall I give her my keys and all of my stuff, and make her hold it... she didn't seem to object to it at all. So we're walking through the mall, finding stores, I bust on her for various things... but the entire time she has this really negative attitude. She was constantly complaining that her feet hurt, that she hates the mall, she was being a total downer. At one point we passed by this granny store and she refused to go in... so I picked her up and forced her in there! It was fun... and again, she didn't really flip out or anything from that so I assumed my behaviour was tolerable. I spot this coffee shop and tell her "I need some coffee... I'm getting stressed out here." I ask her if she wants anything... and give her 10 seconds to decide, otherwise I'm picking for her! She runs out of time... so I say "okay, I'm going to pick you a drink and you have to drink the entire thing, okay?" She agree's. I then ask the lady there "What is the WORST drink you guys have?"... or the "least popular". She recommended the straight espresso, so I got her that. Then I asked for the BEST drink they had, for me of course. She had no problem drinking it... but it was pretty hilarious I must say! Anyways, the major problem I had was that she was constantly walking away from me and being rude. She wouldn't listen. I would suggest going into a certain store... I wanted to look at certain things, etc... she'd refuse to go and was being a huge downer. At one point I was looking for this store on the map, and she just walks off for about 2 mins towards the food court. I had to follow her until finally she turned around and I said "let's get out of here". At one point during the date she was being a huge brat so I spanked her. MAN, you should've seen the look on her face! She was shocked.. I told her "don't be a brat, and I won't spank you". So she just said "I'm not being a brat...", she was, though. I thought she was being very rude and I mentioned that she is breaking the rule I told her about. She goes off "blah blah blah I don't follow any rules". So then I say to her, "look... do you want to go home? I will drive you home." She said nah. Anyways, so after we finish our coffee's and suggested that we should get out of here, we walk towards my car. (I grabbed my stuff back from her), then just before we get to my car I turn around and say "hey, before we go any further, i'm going to need a kiss from you." She said "no", so I just said "well, it was nice meeting you, take care." She walked away, I got in my car and drove off.
Okay... so that was quite an experience! What do you guys think was up with this? Do you guys just think she was playing hard to get? I gamed her SO nicely... and everything I use has been used many times before in the past and has always worked well for me. I thought I was above my game on this one, even! I had a hard time dealing with her bad attitude, but I think nexting her at the end was the right thing to do. Do you guys think I was being a jerk for leaving her there to walk home or bus?
The funny thing is... the entire time she was challenging made me want her even more! I still am thinking about it! I'd only see her again if she apologized to me, though... but I don't see that happening considering I left her in the parking lot to walk home.
Finally, what would you guys have done in my situation? And, do you think she simply wasn't attracted to me or what's the story here?
Thanks... let me know what you guys think!! =)
So I met this girl from online yesterday, get her on the phone immediately and set up plans to meet up today. I pick this girl up at her highschool and things are going pretty well. I'd rate her maybe a 7, she was cute and had a nice body. Things start off well... we have some good conversations, a few good laughs and I start off immediately being C+F with her and extremely confident.
We head to my car and before we get in the car I tell her, "okay, now before we go anywhere I have a few simple rules... #1, i have to be having fun at ALL times. if i'm not having fun, then i'm just going to want to go home. and #2, you must have respect for my time, and my property." She agree's to the rules... agree's they're fair, and then I say "oh yeah, one more rule... i hope you enjoy Greek music!". Okay, so we head to the mall because I have to pick some stuff up and run some errands. The car ride was fun and I busted on her a bit and everything was going fine. Then we get to the mall and she is complaining from before that her feet was hurting, so she says for me to park as close to the mall as possible. Instead, I park as far away from the mall as I can... lol. When we're in the mall I give her my keys and all of my stuff, and make her hold it... she didn't seem to object to it at all. So we're walking through the mall, finding stores, I bust on her for various things... but the entire time she has this really negative attitude. She was constantly complaining that her feet hurt, that she hates the mall, she was being a total downer. At one point we passed by this granny store and she refused to go in... so I picked her up and forced her in there! It was fun... and again, she didn't really flip out or anything from that so I assumed my behaviour was tolerable. I spot this coffee shop and tell her "I need some coffee... I'm getting stressed out here." I ask her if she wants anything... and give her 10 seconds to decide, otherwise I'm picking for her! She runs out of time... so I say "okay, I'm going to pick you a drink and you have to drink the entire thing, okay?" She agree's. I then ask the lady there "What is the WORST drink you guys have?"... or the "least popular". She recommended the straight espresso, so I got her that. Then I asked for the BEST drink they had, for me of course. She had no problem drinking it... but it was pretty hilarious I must say! Anyways, the major problem I had was that she was constantly walking away from me and being rude. She wouldn't listen. I would suggest going into a certain store... I wanted to look at certain things, etc... she'd refuse to go and was being a huge downer. At one point I was looking for this store on the map, and she just walks off for about 2 mins towards the food court. I had to follow her until finally she turned around and I said "let's get out of here". At one point during the date she was being a huge brat so I spanked her. MAN, you should've seen the look on her face! She was shocked.. I told her "don't be a brat, and I won't spank you". So she just said "I'm not being a brat...", she was, though. I thought she was being very rude and I mentioned that she is breaking the rule I told her about. She goes off "blah blah blah I don't follow any rules". So then I say to her, "look... do you want to go home? I will drive you home." She said nah. Anyways, so after we finish our coffee's and suggested that we should get out of here, we walk towards my car. (I grabbed my stuff back from her), then just before we get to my car I turn around and say "hey, before we go any further, i'm going to need a kiss from you." She said "no", so I just said "well, it was nice meeting you, take care." She walked away, I got in my car and drove off.
Okay... so that was quite an experience! What do you guys think was up with this? Do you guys just think she was playing hard to get? I gamed her SO nicely... and everything I use has been used many times before in the past and has always worked well for me. I thought I was above my game on this one, even! I had a hard time dealing with her bad attitude, but I think nexting her at the end was the right thing to do. Do you guys think I was being a jerk for leaving her there to walk home or bus?
The funny thing is... the entire time she was challenging made me want her even more! I still am thinking about it! I'd only see her again if she apologized to me, though... but I don't see that happening considering I left her in the parking lot to walk home.
Finally, what would you guys have done in my situation? And, do you think she simply wasn't attracted to me or what's the story here?
Thanks... let me know what you guys think!! =)