"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do not get offended from my response - it was out of concern for your well being and not to slight you. I know you "got it going on" in many respects of your life based on your previous posts but it is because you are doing so well in your other pursuits in life that you should be even moreso circumspect when it comes to the women you allow into your life.

Yeah, I knew it was the second day that she came over - but what kind of woman allows a man to come to her place on the first moment of their encounter and then spends the next few days at a stranger's place???

Why did you hide your wallet in your car???? This should tell you something!!

Why were you not honest about telling her what you do for a living from the "get go"? This should tell you something!!

You were being cautious but not cautious enough -- you basically gave her you address and allowed her into your private space without knowing much about her!

She is what she is - she is not innocent and you are not the first or the last - you are no one "special" - she did not deviate from her past behavior - this is the norm for her - BUT this is not normal behavior for a woman!!!

Quit taking shyt personal and don't be blinded to the reality of things!

Total premature acceptance of a person is dangerous and blind trust from a woman (i.e. hor) is even more dangerous.

My comments are not made to bring you down but rather to lift you up!
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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backbreaker said:
...this forum is like a lot of guys who give a damn about each other, want to see each other succeed and shoots it to ya straight at all times.
The above quote is from a thread you started in the "Anything Else" forum...listen and take counsel from your own words!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
Do not get offended from my response - it was out of concern for your well being and not to slight you. I know you "got it going on" in many respects of your life based on your previous posts but it is because you are doing so well in your other pursuits in life that you should be even moreso circumspect when it comes to the women you allow into your life.

Yeah, I knew it was the second day that she came over - but what kind of woman allows a man to come to her place on the first moment of their encounter and then spends the next few days at a stranger's place???

Why did you hide your wallet in your car???? This should tell you something!!

Why were you not honest about telling her what you do for a living from the "get go"? This should tell you something!!

You were being cautious but not cautious enough -- you basically gave her you address and allowed her into your private space without knowing much about her!

She is what she is - she is not innocent and you are not the first or the last - you are no one "special" - she did not deviate from her past behavior - this is the norm for her - BUT this is not normal behavior for a woman!!!

Quit taking shyt personal and don't be blinded to the reality of things!

Total premature acceptance of a person is dangerous and blind trust from a woman (i.e. hor) is even more dangerous.

My comments are not made to bring you down but rather to lift you up!


Wow, welcome to the website where you COME TO LEARN HOW TO GET GIRLS!!! I hope you get what you're after!




Backbreaker- You're doin awesome man! You're a real man and real men have to take 'risks' sometimes. I seriously don't understand guys who don't want too meet different girls in their life !!!!!!!

You're going to **** what like 4 girls in your life....if that?!


Last night I got blown ****ing UNBELIEVABLE from this real cute innocent looking girl that's only had sex w/1 guy.

I felt Like I was in a porno she would go so deep that she would start gagging occassionally (after she stopped moaning) Soooooo lol what's the point?


Enjoy yourselves, don't be a ***** cuz you have only your 1 life, thats it.



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Exactly.

I would rather die tomorrow gettnig ****ed senseless, than die of old age at 90, having had any real experiences.. however other people might feel differently.

Plus, and this is something that guys don't seem to understand... with women, you basiclly have like a 6 hour window to take that next step. When a woman decides she is going to **** you, you better take the opprotunity then, or else you are in LJBF land, regardless of how much game you have.

With the singals she was throwing out towards me, if I would have gave her a kiss on the cheek and went home, she would have thought I was gay.

AC, you are the man!

LMS, you seem to be ahead of most newbies here.. hell you were leaps and bounds ahead of me when I first got here.
 
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You seem to have missed the point - my concern was the amount of trust that you have with women who you do not know and I was pointing out the mindset of women who are so "friendly" with strangers - these kind of women are the most untrustworthy - you'll live and learn.

Ho-ray for getting a ho!! Is that what you want to hear...:rolleyes:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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