"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do not get offended from my response - it was out of concern for your well being and not to slight you. I know you "got it going on" in many respects of your life based on your previous posts but it is because you are doing so well in your other pursuits in life that you should be even moreso circumspect when it comes to the women you allow into your life.

Yeah, I knew it was the second day that she came over - but what kind of woman allows a man to come to her place on the first moment of their encounter and then spends the next few days at a stranger's place???

Why did you hide your wallet in your car???? This should tell you something!!

Why were you not honest about telling her what you do for a living from the "get go"? This should tell you something!!

You were being cautious but not cautious enough -- you basically gave her you address and allowed her into your private space without knowing much about her!

She is what she is - she is not innocent and you are not the first or the last - you are no one "special" - she did not deviate from her past behavior - this is the norm for her - BUT this is not normal behavior for a woman!!!

Quit taking shyt personal and don't be blinded to the reality of things!

Total premature acceptance of a person is dangerous and blind trust from a woman (i.e. hor) is even more dangerous.

My comments are not made to bring you down but rather to lift you up!
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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backbreaker said:
...this forum is like a lot of guys who give a damn about each other, want to see each other succeed and shoots it to ya straight at all times.
The above quote is from a thread you started in the "Anything Else" forum...listen and take counsel from your own words!
 
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Last Man Standing said:
Do not get offended from my response - it was out of concern for your well being and not to slight you. I know you "got it going on" in many respects of your life based on your previous posts but it is because you are doing so well in your other pursuits in life that you should be even moreso circumspect when it comes to the women you allow into your life.

Yeah, I knew it was the second day that she came over - but what kind of woman allows a man to come to her place on the first moment of their encounter and then spends the next few days at a stranger's place???

Why did you hide your wallet in your car???? This should tell you something!!

Why were you not honest about telling her what you do for a living from the "get go"? This should tell you something!!

You were being cautious but not cautious enough -- you basically gave her you address and allowed her into your private space without knowing much about her!

She is what she is - she is not innocent and you are not the first or the last - you are no one "special" - she did not deviate from her past behavior - this is the norm for her - BUT this is not normal behavior for a woman!!!

Quit taking shyt personal and don't be blinded to the reality of things!

Total premature acceptance of a person is dangerous and blind trust from a woman (i.e. hor) is even more dangerous.

My comments are not made to bring you down but rather to lift you up!


Wow, welcome to the website where you COME TO LEARN HOW TO GET GIRLS!!! I hope you get what you're after!




Backbreaker- You're doin awesome man! You're a real man and real men have to take 'risks' sometimes. I seriously don't understand guys who don't want too meet different girls in their life !!!!!!!

You're going to **** what like 4 girls in your life....if that?!


Last night I got blown ****ing UNBELIEVABLE from this real cute innocent looking girl that's only had sex w/1 guy.

I felt Like I was in a porno she would go so deep that she would start gagging occassionally (after she stopped moaning) Soooooo lol what's the point?


Enjoy yourselves, don't be a ***** cuz you have only your 1 life, thats it.



AC
 

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Exactly.

I would rather die tomorrow gettnig ****ed senseless, than die of old age at 90, having had any real experiences.. however other people might feel differently.

Plus, and this is something that guys don't seem to understand... with women, you basiclly have like a 6 hour window to take that next step. When a woman decides she is going to **** you, you better take the opprotunity then, or else you are in LJBF land, regardless of how much game you have.

With the singals she was throwing out towards me, if I would have gave her a kiss on the cheek and went home, she would have thought I was gay.

AC, you are the man!

LMS, you seem to be ahead of most newbies here.. hell you were leaps and bounds ahead of me when I first got here.
 
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You seem to have missed the point - my concern was the amount of trust that you have with women who you do not know and I was pointing out the mindset of women who are so "friendly" with strangers - these kind of women are the most untrustworthy - you'll live and learn.

Ho-ray for getting a ho!! Is that what you want to hear...:rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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