[FR] Creepy Attraction

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

wifehunter

Master Don Juan

Nov 12, 2017

The other day...I went to pickup some food at a nice place in Fashion Island. (you know I'm from oc right?)

Anyway, I walk over to the pickup area and there were 10 or so, girls prepping food. They all just started staring at me...Getting the 'eyes' from one or two girls is normal...but a flock of girls? I felt the there was something wrong with me...like snot running down my nose...or I forgot to zip my fly. Super uncomfortable!

Oh well, I guess, I'll just have to get used to it!

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.