[FR] Creepy Attraction

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

wifehunter

Master Don Juan

Nov 12, 2017

The other day...I went to pickup some food at a nice place in Fashion Island. (you know I'm from oc right?)

Anyway, I walk over to the pickup area and there were 10 or so, girls prepping food. They all just started staring at me...Getting the 'eyes' from one or two girls is normal...but a flock of girls? I felt the there was something wrong with me...like snot running down my nose...or I forgot to zip my fly. Super uncomfortable!

Oh well, I guess, I'll just have to get used to it!

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.