“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ok I didn't know what to expect

it started out slow, and being that I wasn't familiar, I was only able to hang at the bar just scoping out the place, later on I'd start socializing and more people came to the convention. It was obvious that the older ladies were really into me since I was so young. The problem was that I couldn't close on any of them. I only managed to make out heavily with one and get two numbers out of it.

How do I close on a cougar? I thought they would be the one that did most of the work for me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, I had a clingy cougar on me last night. REally fvcked up my game. Until her, I had multiple girls younger than me giving me IOIs and introducing themselves to ME. From now on I guess I'm gonna have to be rude to cougars to get them to LEAVE from my presence. I can't be seen with them.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Well, I had a clingy cougar on me last night. REally fvcked up my game. Until her, I had multiple girls younger than me giving me IOIs and introducing themselves to ME. From now on I guess I'm gonna have to be rude to cougars to get them to LEAVE from my presence. I can't be seen with them.
The cougars were way more interested and they tell you straight up anything you want to know. They know what they like and will tell you. I should've done the same thing and just told her to take me home with her. That IS the reason for the cougar convention.
 
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