"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: cougar night

Vanilla

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ok I didn't know what to expect

it started out slow, and being that I wasn't familiar, I was only able to hang at the bar just scoping out the place, later on I'd start socializing and more people came to the convention. It was obvious that the older ladies were really into me since I was so young. The problem was that I couldn't close on any of them. I only managed to make out heavily with one and get two numbers out of it.

How do I close on a cougar? I thought they would be the one that did most of the work for me.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well, I had a clingy cougar on me last night. REally fvcked up my game. Until her, I had multiple girls younger than me giving me IOIs and introducing themselves to ME. From now on I guess I'm gonna have to be rude to cougars to get them to LEAVE from my presence. I can't be seen with them.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Well, I had a clingy cougar on me last night. REally fvcked up my game. Until her, I had multiple girls younger than me giving me IOIs and introducing themselves to ME. From now on I guess I'm gonna have to be rude to cougars to get them to LEAVE from my presence. I can't be seen with them.
The cougars were way more interested and they tell you straight up anything you want to know. They know what they like and will tell you. I should've done the same thing and just told her to take me home with her. That IS the reason for the cougar convention.
 
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