"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: cougar night

Vanilla

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ok I didn't know what to expect

it started out slow, and being that I wasn't familiar, I was only able to hang at the bar just scoping out the place, later on I'd start socializing and more people came to the convention. It was obvious that the older ladies were really into me since I was so young. The problem was that I couldn't close on any of them. I only managed to make out heavily with one and get two numbers out of it.

How do I close on a cougar? I thought they would be the one that did most of the work for me.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Well, I had a clingy cougar on me last night. REally fvcked up my game. Until her, I had multiple girls younger than me giving me IOIs and introducing themselves to ME. From now on I guess I'm gonna have to be rude to cougars to get them to LEAVE from my presence. I can't be seen with them.
 

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Poonani Maker said:
Well, I had a clingy cougar on me last night. REally fvcked up my game. Until her, I had multiple girls younger than me giving me IOIs and introducing themselves to ME. From now on I guess I'm gonna have to be rude to cougars to get them to LEAVE from my presence. I can't be seen with them.
The cougars were way more interested and they tell you straight up anything you want to know. They know what they like and will tell you. I should've done the same thing and just told her to take me home with her. That IS the reason for the cougar convention.
 
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