"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: Confusion

oakraiderz2

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Last night i chilled with this girl that ive known for a while. About a year about we made out, blah blah. We were suppose to hang out weds night but i cancelled on her and got drunk instead. I told her we were gonna hang out saturday. So around 2pm on sat i sent her a text reminding her that we're gonna hang out cause shes kinda sketchy. She didnt respond and i knew i just had to call her that night. I called her later and she told me she was going to a movie with her "cousin." She could have been telling the truth but who knows, shes weird. She told me that she would come over when the movie ended. She called and come over. We went for a walk around my neighborhood just talking and stuff. I told her she was ****y and she got all booty hurt and started acting like a tool. When we got back to my house we stood outside for a little. Naturally because she hung around i assumed i could at least get a kiss...but i couldnt have been more wrong. 5 min later we went inside and watched the fvckin spelling bee...yea retarded. Anyway, she seemed like she was bored so i figured she wanted to make out...no dice. I tried to tickle her and i tried to set myself up for the kiss, didnt work. What made it weird was the fact that she stayed instead of going home. When she was leaving i walked her outside and figured id give it a shot. We hugged and i was gonna go for the kiss but she didnt let me...all i got was the forehead. Then she said..."i know your moves."


I was kinda in shock, but i knew the whole time that she has some amount of game. So im just trying to figure out what the hell? Why no kiss? Whatd i do wrong?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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you should have freezed her out man. Right when she didn't let you make out or tickle her, you should have done a freeze out on her. Its golden man, she woulda been crawling back to you (i assume). If she really did have the same game as you, then you've gotta step it up with booze for her (haha jk).
 

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mmmm a few reasons why she acted like the way she did....

1. You blew her out, to go and get drunk instead! Way to go to making her feel special AFTER you had made out with her

2. You texted her and she didnt respond. So you called her to reward her for ignoring you! :nono:

3. Dude, she already made out with you, she is interested! you should be working on raising her temperature and getting her horny instead of negging her! What the hell were you thinking about the "****y" comment????

4. She stayed around there for so long because you kept feeding her damn ego! she kept turning you down, and you kept trying! giving her all the power! try getting her horny first. if she turns you away, try some freeze out methods.

Come on dude, these are some rooky mistakes you made there. You've got 3000+ posts under your belt!
 

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Fash said:
mmmm a few reasons why she acted like the way she did....

1. You blew her out, to go and get drunk instead! Way to go to making her feel special AFTER you had made out with her

2. You texted her and she didnt respond. So you called her to reward her for ignoring you! :nono:

3. Dude, she already made out with you, she is interested! you should be working on raising her temperature and getting her horny instead of negging her! What the hell were you thinking about the "****y" comment????

4. She stayed around there for so long because you kept feeding her damn ego! she kept turning you down, and you kept trying! giving her all the power! try getting her horny first. if she turns you away, try some freeze out methods.

Come on dude, these are some rooky mistakes you made there. You've got 3000+ posts under your belt!
1. We made out A YEAR AGO. I made up some reason about why i couldnt hang out the night before.

2. Maybe, i ignore people text all the time if if doesnt seem like i really need to respond. I saw it as she wanted to see if i would call her to chill instead of being a puss and texting.

3. Like i said before, we made out a year ago. She brought up me calling her ****y first. I said she was ****y a while ago cause she has a huge ego. I called her ****y again cause she would get flustered and it was funny.

4. I didnt see it as feeding her ego. I thought of it as her waiting for me to make a move, maybe it meant something different.

When we hung out a year ago (when we made out) she likes to think that she was the one that made the first move, which is bs. I suppose i felt a bit inclined to do something. Rookie mistakes??? I dunno about that, i knew what i was doing, granted i could have changed a few things. I see some of her actions as retaliation for not chillin the night before.
 
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