"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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FR: Clubbing In Spain.What happened

NoMoreAFC

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well im from portugal and went to the north of spain ( galiza ) to spend my summer vacations with a group of 5 guys, we went to to a disco there, and while they were hitting the girls i was too but not with much luck

a) did a lot of butt bumping with a 7 that was with her boyfriend, i think she liked because when i stopped butt bumping she would come closer and start it herself... dont know if this is a sign of interest or just something usual in any discos.


b) a HB 8 girl from Madrid was dancing and when a guy pushes her and her purse falls to the floor, i collect it and do mental kino with the girl, i mean i looked deep into her eyes and made her notice that i liked what i was seeing. she said " eres muy amable " and i replied in my mix of castellano and portuguese that it was nothing a gentleman wouldnt do.... i didnt understand what she was saying but i think her thanks had more than just a thank you, cuz she kept looking at me and asking me questions which i didnt understand the most part because the music was loud as **** and my spanish is not so good, she even gave me a cigarrette...i think something was working ok to me but when i asked where she was going she said she was going to another disco with her cousins. i thought it was an invitation, and i combined with my friends that we would go there and meet her, but she never showed up, maybe she went to another disco who knows.... its still puzzling me

c) another thing that i wanna add and that happened to a friend of mine in the disco, a girl was smiling at him and giving lots of buying signals, he grabbed her ass and she she slapped his hand she even scracted his hand and then still continued the eye contact and smiling, my friend was like WTF is happening here? i think she's an attention ***** and i told him that.


oh and its a myth that spanish girls are easy to get laid, at least in the galiza region.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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YOU GOT A LONG WAY TO GO BUDDY!

You had several chances. The first girl wanted you. duh!
 

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yeah, except the fact that her boyfriend was right there with her...
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
yeah, except the fact that her boyfriend was right there with her...
Doesn't matter man, girls bring guy friends to clubs all the time just to dance with. Just cause she's with a dude doesn't mean they're an item.
 

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a) Was she with a male friend or a boyfriend?

b) Just forget about it, maybe she was drunk or got in argument with her friends...

c)lol, did he touch her ass before kissing her or some kino? It could be that she's an aw but it could also be that ur friend misread IOIs and made a dumb move.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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