"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: Clubbing In Spain.What happened

NoMoreAFC

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well im from portugal and went to the north of spain ( galiza ) to spend my summer vacations with a group of 5 guys, we went to to a disco there, and while they were hitting the girls i was too but not with much luck

a) did a lot of butt bumping with a 7 that was with her boyfriend, i think she liked because when i stopped butt bumping she would come closer and start it herself... dont know if this is a sign of interest or just something usual in any discos.


b) a HB 8 girl from Madrid was dancing and when a guy pushes her and her purse falls to the floor, i collect it and do mental kino with the girl, i mean i looked deep into her eyes and made her notice that i liked what i was seeing. she said " eres muy amable " and i replied in my mix of castellano and portuguese that it was nothing a gentleman wouldnt do.... i didnt understand what she was saying but i think her thanks had more than just a thank you, cuz she kept looking at me and asking me questions which i didnt understand the most part because the music was loud as **** and my spanish is not so good, she even gave me a cigarrette...i think something was working ok to me but when i asked where she was going she said she was going to another disco with her cousins. i thought it was an invitation, and i combined with my friends that we would go there and meet her, but she never showed up, maybe she went to another disco who knows.... its still puzzling me

c) another thing that i wanna add and that happened to a friend of mine in the disco, a girl was smiling at him and giving lots of buying signals, he grabbed her ass and she she slapped his hand she even scracted his hand and then still continued the eye contact and smiling, my friend was like WTF is happening here? i think she's an attention ***** and i told him that.


oh and its a myth that spanish girls are easy to get laid, at least in the galiza region.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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YOU GOT A LONG WAY TO GO BUDDY!

You had several chances. The first girl wanted you. duh!
 

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yeah, except the fact that her boyfriend was right there with her...
 

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Originally posted by NoMoreAFC
yeah, except the fact that her boyfriend was right there with her...
Doesn't matter man, girls bring guy friends to clubs all the time just to dance with. Just cause she's with a dude doesn't mean they're an item.
 

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a) Was she with a male friend or a boyfriend?

b) Just forget about it, maybe she was drunk or got in argument with her friends...

c)lol, did he touch her ass before kissing her or some kino? It could be that she's an aw but it could also be that ur friend misread IOIs and made a dumb move.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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