"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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FR: Clubbing Comeback

LaoDa

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I have been out of the club scene for a long time-- been out of sosuave for awhile to.. anyways got the opportunity to go with a wing to the best club in town and try to do some approaches, shake away the rust etc...

Anyways we got buzzed outside the club (drinking in public is legal here) then went in and immediately opened up a 3 set.. those were mixed results and we ended up ejecting pretty quick--

we went through a few more sets with lackluster results till we opened up a set with a portuguese girl and abc..macked on that talked about the club scene got her background built up a reason for us to go out then got her number-- I ended up giving it to her cause my cellphone was acting up-- chalked this one up as a loss but she texted me at 8 this morning with her number which swayed my opinion

next set was one I opened where 2 girls came over and stood next to us in the VIP area...everything was going good-- kino going good conversation -- got the number but then went down to get drinks with them and they thought we were paying.. some abcs came in to try to pick up the girls while we were still in the frame.. didnt know what to do for a sec but decided to say wassup to them and basically get their attention away from the girl I was talking to before- so we chatted with them and the girl got froze out which was a good thing cause she was a drink hustler and when she found out we werent paying they had to "go to the bathroom" -- the bartender was like pay-- I told him she was paying and she'd be back then walked off

opened up more sets no results

finally was trying to get a drink at the bar and the stupid bartenders werent paying attention to me so I was getting pissed but then I saw two hotties at the other side of the bar anf told my friend they could help us order and we could use that to DJ them-- sure enough talked with the girl for 5 minutes then got the number-- talked to her about her bangs for a bit- she was real interested-- hah...wow....

ok to cut this short I made out with this girl I know and think is hot then we went out for fried rice at this stand next to the club - felt better then we went back to the club and opened another set after that got another number and an invitation to go the night market this week..:D finally at 430 we opted to go for one last set which actually to me was the best girl cause she was telling me she was lonely and new to the city and her friends were all coworkers blah blah blah massive kino made out and she gave me her number and we are going out this week to..

me and wingmans strength: initiative
weakness: teamwork was not good
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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LegendBoy

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Good job mate. Seems like it was a good night... Two hooks ups :up:

At the moment I am not going clubbing for a while, well until New Years Eve...But I am waiting for University for new wings and mates to go out with because at the moment my current group of friends are not good as wingmen and are not conducive to going on picking up sprees.
 

danielzxc

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Legend Boy, you should be going to underage nights bro. I would kill to be your age again. Those places you will get the easiest pickups of your life.
 

LegendBoy

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You talking about under 18's right?

My cousin whos 17 goes to them I could go out with her and all her friends one night and get hammered and try picking up 16,17 year old chicks ...

**** thing about clubs is you spend to much cash, i bomb at LEAST $40 on a night out.

Also being 18 in the club isn't as cool as there are 24 year old guys who have the $$ and social proof they been around way longer and can score so much easier on the chicks my age...
 

LaoDa

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didnt even know anyone replied to this-- been having good weeks so far.. was thinking of kinda modeling the club experience after keys to the VIP i.e contests with the wing and all.. I do realize though the more numbers I get the more I disregard time rules in regards of when to call and what to say- I remember there was a thread about making sure u werent boring and giving girls the whole spectrum of emotions --
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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