"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR: Clubbing Comeback

LaoDa

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I have been out of the club scene for a long time-- been out of sosuave for awhile to.. anyways got the opportunity to go with a wing to the best club in town and try to do some approaches, shake away the rust etc...

Anyways we got buzzed outside the club (drinking in public is legal here) then went in and immediately opened up a 3 set.. those were mixed results and we ended up ejecting pretty quick--

we went through a few more sets with lackluster results till we opened up a set with a portuguese girl and abc..macked on that talked about the club scene got her background built up a reason for us to go out then got her number-- I ended up giving it to her cause my cellphone was acting up-- chalked this one up as a loss but she texted me at 8 this morning with her number which swayed my opinion

next set was one I opened where 2 girls came over and stood next to us in the VIP area...everything was going good-- kino going good conversation -- got the number but then went down to get drinks with them and they thought we were paying.. some abcs came in to try to pick up the girls while we were still in the frame.. didnt know what to do for a sec but decided to say wassup to them and basically get their attention away from the girl I was talking to before- so we chatted with them and the girl got froze out which was a good thing cause she was a drink hustler and when she found out we werent paying they had to "go to the bathroom" -- the bartender was like pay-- I told him she was paying and she'd be back then walked off

opened up more sets no results

finally was trying to get a drink at the bar and the stupid bartenders werent paying attention to me so I was getting pissed but then I saw two hotties at the other side of the bar anf told my friend they could help us order and we could use that to DJ them-- sure enough talked with the girl for 5 minutes then got the number-- talked to her about her bangs for a bit- she was real interested-- hah...wow....

ok to cut this short I made out with this girl I know and think is hot then we went out for fried rice at this stand next to the club - felt better then we went back to the club and opened another set after that got another number and an invitation to go the night market this week..:D finally at 430 we opted to go for one last set which actually to me was the best girl cause she was telling me she was lonely and new to the city and her friends were all coworkers blah blah blah massive kino made out and she gave me her number and we are going out this week to..

me and wingmans strength: initiative
weakness: teamwork was not good
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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LegendBoy

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Good job mate. Seems like it was a good night... Two hooks ups :up:

At the moment I am not going clubbing for a while, well until New Years Eve...But I am waiting for University for new wings and mates to go out with because at the moment my current group of friends are not good as wingmen and are not conducive to going on picking up sprees.
 

danielzxc

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Legend Boy, you should be going to underage nights bro. I would kill to be your age again. Those places you will get the easiest pickups of your life.
 

LegendBoy

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You talking about under 18's right?

My cousin whos 17 goes to them I could go out with her and all her friends one night and get hammered and try picking up 16,17 year old chicks ...

**** thing about clubs is you spend to much cash, i bomb at LEAST $40 on a night out.

Also being 18 in the club isn't as cool as there are 24 year old guys who have the $$ and social proof they been around way longer and can score so much easier on the chicks my age...
 

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didnt even know anyone replied to this-- been having good weeks so far.. was thinking of kinda modeling the club experience after keys to the VIP i.e contests with the wing and all.. I do realize though the more numbers I get the more I disregard time rules in regards of when to call and what to say- I remember there was a thread about making sure u werent boring and giving girls the whole spectrum of emotions --
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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