"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So I went 2 an 80's party n this is the 1st time I bother 2 make field reports. So I walk in n I spot an hb 7.5 n I just asked if she wanted 2 dance n we started dancing, introduction...
She said at 1 pt that she liked my accent. We kept talking, flirting, she introduced me 2 her friends n I flirted w/ them a lil bit... I found out she was a cougar, 4 yrs older n had already graduated. We kept talking, teasing... At some point, I saw that she was really responsive, n I was trying 2 go 4 the kiss. Started eskimo kiss, then she asked 2 do butterfly kiss. after I asked her how good of a kisser she was but she didnt seem really responsive 4 the kiss. I was cool w/ it. After that she said
Her: u're really suave... prolly took u years of practice
Me: I got it from my dad
Her: Is that how he got ur mom
Me: Yea, n that's how Im gonna get u 2
We both laughed n we kept on going. Later on, I asked her if she was ticklish:
Her: Yea
Me: Where?
Her: No I can't tell
Me: Oh ok. I'll find out anyways so u better tell now.
Her: No I won't. find out urself.
I tickled her on the ribs n that's where she was ticklish.
Me: That's cute.
Her: wat makes u say that?
Me: U know wat they say... ticklish people are usually freaks.
Her: I'm good in bed (laughs)
Me: We'll c.
After that, there was eye contact n she said again that I was suave. We were having strong eye contact n she just says in a joking way:
Her: U're trying so hard... (prolly **** test)
Me: Trying so hard 2 do wat?
Her: U're just trying so hard
Me: Nooo u're trying so hard
Her: Me???
Me: yeah u, n u trying 2 blame it on me. That's not fair.
Her: (laughs). I'm trying hard 2 do wat.
Me: wat u accusing me of doing (n winked).
Her: (laughs) I was just messing w/ u.
Meanwhile, some guys were having a dance off
Her: u wanna go there n teach them?
Me: no...
Her: (gets close 2 me, n starts grinding on me hardcore) or this is wat u like?
Me: If u keep acting like this u gonna get hurt.
Her: (laughs)

1 of her friends was very wasted n she had 2 drive home cuz she was the sober driver. She hugs me so tight n says "I'll call u 2morrow".

Alright guys that's it. Let me know if sthg was done wrong or things that I can improve.

Thanx
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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alright guys. I'll do my best 2 not screw it up. i never been w/ an older chic. Any suggestions 4 follow up
 
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