"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Closing HB10+ Angelia Jolie lookalike & progress

Fash

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Right...

Last night I was out again. This time with a decent wing I could rely on.

Standing downstairs in a popular bar, and noticed two GORGEOUS HBs walking down the stairs. It was the weirdest moment I've ever experienced in this place. All the guys suddenly seemed to freeze! even the women were staring in wonder...

HB1 = Cute little blonde, nice chest, 5'5, a HB9.5
HB2 = Unbelievably beautiful, AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! brunette, blonde highlights, she looked like a younger version of Angelina Jolie, HB11!!!!

I waited till they got a drink but I could not contain my self anymore, I had to go open the set.

So I dragged my friend to the toilet, prepped him on the "Jelous GF" routine and told him to follow me out in 2 minutes.

So I opened them, the usual stuff, ignored the HB11, PLENTY of negging. Did ****y/funny, lots of kino, I mean I pulled out the big guns on these chicks.

As they started to have fun, I said "I better get back to my mates. See you around" I walked off with my friend before they had the chance to talk.

10 minutes later, they came up to us, and said "Hi" as if they were walking past. Walked past and came back again. I ignored them and just said a quick "Hi".

1/2 hour later, I saw the HB11 getting her coat, so I went over and number closed her. Was surprisingly easy. (and YES, i did try the f-close. she wasnt having it. she was going to meet her sister..... mmmm the possibilities!)

I was however thinking, DAMN! another number close that is gonna lead to nowhere....

I sms'd her at 1pm today:

"Hey, I remember you having the the nicest smile that I have seen in a long time! or maybe i was drunk!? Anyway, I enjoyed the conversation"

I have to say that I was shocked to get a reply:

"Ha! first you call me a b1tch as soon as you meet me, then you tell me you were drunk and wearing beer goggles! CHARMING!!!"

I called her, no answer. So I replied:

"Now that I have your attention, come and see me. You can treat me to lunch"

She replied about an hour later:

"ooh, very tempting offer, but i'm afraid I've already eaten. sorry i missed your call x"

My reply:

"I'm on my way home now. FYI, i wasnt drunk, I didnt call you a b1tch, AND you are absolutely stunning! but you dont need me to tell you that! you have a nice smile and I like that. x"

Now this is the best one... her reply:

"you are very direct! i like that. it's quite refreshing. I'll enjoy seeing you again"

me:

"good. i'll call you next week. I'd like to see you again"

This is as far as I have got so far....

I'll let you guys know what happens when I see her again next week!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Fash

"I'm on my way home now. FYI, i wasnt drunk, I didnt call you a b1tch, AND you are absolutely stunning! but you dont need me to tell you that! you have a nice smile and I like that. x"
W... T... FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!!!

Why? What for? She doesn't need you to tell her that.. WE KNOW THAT TOO!!

I'd have ended the smsing after she said she was busy for the lunch, and call her later on, a week.
 

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Girl cant be HB10+ until You speak ot her. HB10+ means not only looks but also character type, sound of voice etc. Anyways i understand they were hot.
Let us know whats going on with her. Personally i date only HB9, ive number closed few HB10+ but this was just too perfect. I couldnt be myself there. HB9 is mad enaugh for me. Have good time.
 

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I'm gonna give her a shout on Wednesday. I think I'll continue the same style:

me: "I'm free to see you for a bit tonight. Meet me at (time) at (location)"

I'll see if I can get her to let me take a photo of her with my phone.

I'll keep you guys posted.

If anyone has any suggestions on how I should approach from here, please let me know!

Happy holidays!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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