"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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FR: Closing HB10+ Angelia Jolie lookalike & progress

Fash

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Right...

Last night I was out again. This time with a decent wing I could rely on.

Standing downstairs in a popular bar, and noticed two GORGEOUS HBs walking down the stairs. It was the weirdest moment I've ever experienced in this place. All the guys suddenly seemed to freeze! even the women were staring in wonder...

HB1 = Cute little blonde, nice chest, 5'5, a HB9.5
HB2 = Unbelievably beautiful, AHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! brunette, blonde highlights, she looked like a younger version of Angelina Jolie, HB11!!!!

I waited till they got a drink but I could not contain my self anymore, I had to go open the set.

So I dragged my friend to the toilet, prepped him on the "Jelous GF" routine and told him to follow me out in 2 minutes.

So I opened them, the usual stuff, ignored the HB11, PLENTY of negging. Did ****y/funny, lots of kino, I mean I pulled out the big guns on these chicks.

As they started to have fun, I said "I better get back to my mates. See you around" I walked off with my friend before they had the chance to talk.

10 minutes later, they came up to us, and said "Hi" as if they were walking past. Walked past and came back again. I ignored them and just said a quick "Hi".

1/2 hour later, I saw the HB11 getting her coat, so I went over and number closed her. Was surprisingly easy. (and YES, i did try the f-close. she wasnt having it. she was going to meet her sister..... mmmm the possibilities!)

I was however thinking, DAMN! another number close that is gonna lead to nowhere....

I sms'd her at 1pm today:

"Hey, I remember you having the the nicest smile that I have seen in a long time! or maybe i was drunk!? Anyway, I enjoyed the conversation"

I have to say that I was shocked to get a reply:

"Ha! first you call me a b1tch as soon as you meet me, then you tell me you were drunk and wearing beer goggles! CHARMING!!!"

I called her, no answer. So I replied:

"Now that I have your attention, come and see me. You can treat me to lunch"

She replied about an hour later:

"ooh, very tempting offer, but i'm afraid I've already eaten. sorry i missed your call x"

My reply:

"I'm on my way home now. FYI, i wasnt drunk, I didnt call you a b1tch, AND you are absolutely stunning! but you dont need me to tell you that! you have a nice smile and I like that. x"

Now this is the best one... her reply:

"you are very direct! i like that. it's quite refreshing. I'll enjoy seeing you again"

me:

"good. i'll call you next week. I'd like to see you again"

This is as far as I have got so far....

I'll let you guys know what happens when I see her again next week!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Originally posted by Fash

"I'm on my way home now. FYI, i wasnt drunk, I didnt call you a b1tch, AND you are absolutely stunning! but you dont need me to tell you that! you have a nice smile and I like that. x"
W... T... FFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF!!!!!!!!!

Why? What for? She doesn't need you to tell her that.. WE KNOW THAT TOO!!

I'd have ended the smsing after she said she was busy for the lunch, and call her later on, a week.
 

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Girl cant be HB10+ until You speak ot her. HB10+ means not only looks but also character type, sound of voice etc. Anyways i understand they were hot.
Let us know whats going on with her. Personally i date only HB9, ive number closed few HB10+ but this was just too perfect. I couldnt be myself there. HB9 is mad enaugh for me. Have good time.
 

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I'm gonna give her a shout on Wednesday. I think I'll continue the same style:

me: "I'm free to see you for a bit tonight. Meet me at (time) at (location)"

I'll see if I can get her to let me take a photo of her with my phone.

I'll keep you guys posted.

If anyone has any suggestions on how I should approach from here, please let me know!

Happy holidays!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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