"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: chick vanished 3/4 of the way thru date

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This other girl IL was probably raised by you having a girl with you. Then your date's IL was raised by you're giving the other girl atttention. I agree you probably should've told your date that you were getting beer and would be back, but how often does doing the "right" thing get rewarded by women?

This accidentally turned out to be one of the smoothest moves ever.The power of jealousy and woman seeing you have other options. I do think your dates overreaction was understandable and even acceptable.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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eyedogg said:
LMS - I suprised and impressed as to your response on this. I actually did the same thing to a girl that I WAS dating.
It does PISS them off big time.

Will not do again.
Why do people think I'm an animal of some sort, is it because I use alot of exclamation points? :rolleyes:

You should treat people with respect. What if she did the same to Macvoy, he would have did the same, probably have been more upset since men have a lower tolerance for disrespect! !
 

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LMS was right.

Make it up to her.
 
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