"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: chick vanished 3/4 of the way thru date

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This other girl IL was probably raised by you having a girl with you. Then your date's IL was raised by you're giving the other girl atttention. I agree you probably should've told your date that you were getting beer and would be back, but how often does doing the "right" thing get rewarded by women?

This accidentally turned out to be one of the smoothest moves ever.The power of jealousy and woman seeing you have other options. I do think your dates overreaction was understandable and even acceptable.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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eyedogg said:
LMS - I suprised and impressed as to your response on this. I actually did the same thing to a girl that I WAS dating.
It does PISS them off big time.

Will not do again.
Why do people think I'm an animal of some sort, is it because I use alot of exclamation points? :rolleyes:

You should treat people with respect. What if she did the same to Macvoy, he would have did the same, probably have been more upset since men have a lower tolerance for disrespect! !
 

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LMS was right.

Make it up to her.
 
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