"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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FR: ****blocked! Arrgh....

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This one's for you JC!

I won't go into super duper details for this one. I'll try to keep this short and sweet.

I'm talking to this HB and we are walking in the hallway (bottom level) of the dorm. We are about to go upstairs to her room and .....(I know what you were thinking you dirty dog you!)

When all of a sudden HB's AFC Friend yells her name. He comes over and asks her to introduce him to the other students in the commons room. Apparently, he is too shy to introduce HIMSELF. He wanted to get votes for some stupid student election.

Anywho, we walked to the commons room (AWAY from seduction location).

Recap: We are just about to walk upstairs to go to her room when AFC Friend calls her name. He comes over. I stand there doing NOTHING :cry: and he takes her in another direction as I follow. That gets a double :cry: :cry:!

I know I should have done something but WHAT?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my school had elections today too.

I wonder if you go to my school...
 
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damn that sucks :( i dunno what i probably owuld have done. probably the same thing u did and i'd be wishing that i just went about my business and ran into her some other time
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Laaaaaaaammmmmmmeeeeeeee!

Some experienced advice would be appreciated!


*Shezz & JC*


Laaaaaaaaaattttttttteeeeeeeeeee!
 
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Kintuz, wanna know what I would have done?

I'd have done her job for her. I wouldn't have rubbed it in her face, unless she actually tried. If she was doing a good job, than I would... COMPETE with her.

When your seducing a girl, you got to up the emotions... I don't know how she could have so easily been taken away from you in the first place... Enough for her to be taken away by an AFC guy, but that's your problem to think of later.

You want to 'amp the attraction'. Just brainstorm how you would do that. hmmm?

What was she trying to do at the moment she was taken away? talking to you I assume, since that is what you told us. Than somebody comes to her and asks HER for help... hmmmm... think she got a sense of importance at that moment? She weighed her choices, and chose the AFC who gave her the opportunity to talk to more people, over YOU, who was just in the first stages of isolation.

As soon as she stood up to walk away, you should have pulled the jealousy card. ASK her where she is going. Plant the seeds of distrust, and her own disrespect to you inside of her mind. Make her realize that when she talked to you, she had an obligation to keep the conversation going...

"I'm going to help *AFC* get some votes in the elction."

Then you make a decision! Are you going to stay behind, and wait for her to come back? Or, are you going to lead her in the direction that she has chosen?

What you did was choose option two, but put the desperation spin into it. You FOLLOWED her to the commons room, Mr AFC had the leader quality for him, times two since he was looking for her to to teach HIM how to gain acceptance by people.

I'm sure there were so many ways that she felt compelled to help him out. Friendship, asking nicely, and the promise of a good reputation, and a good word if she did her job well...

You should have lead the pack. "where are you going" "commons room with *afc*, votes for election blah blah blah" "cool, hey *afc* good to meet you, what are you running for?"

Run some C+F on him infront of her, get him pumped up, tell him how good he's going to do, and how he's going to swindle the organization when he gets in. When he introduces a concept, say "save it for your speech", when he begins talking to people, put in good words for him... if the girl knows your trying, but are talking out of your ass, she would have eaten you alive after you were done talking up people with mr *afc*
 
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flippinfreak said:
Kintuz, wanna know what I would have done?

I'd have done her job for her. I wouldn't have rubbed it in her face, unless she actually tried. If she was doing a good job, than I would... COMPETE with her.

When your seducing a girl, you got to up the emotions... I don't know how she could have so easily been taken away from you in the first place... Enough for her to be taken away by an AFC guy, but that's your problem to think of later.

You want to 'amp the attraction'. Just brainstorm how you would do that. hmmm?

What was she trying to do at the moment she was taken away? talking to you I assume, since that is what you told us. Than somebody comes to her and asks HER for help... hmmmm... think she got a sense of importance at that moment? She weighed her choices, and chose the AFC who gave her the opportunity to talk to more people, over YOU, who was just in the first stages of isolation.

As soon as she stood up to walk away, you should have pulled the jealousy card. ASK her where she is going. Plant the seeds of distrust, and her own disrespect to you inside of her mind. Make her realize that when she talked to you, she had an obligation to keep the conversation going...

"I'm going to help *AFC* get some votes in the elction."

Then you make a decision! Are you going to stay behind, and wait for her to come back? Or, are you going to lead her in the direction that she has chosen?

What you did was choose option two, but put the desperation spin into it. You FOLLOWED her to the commons room, Mr AFC had the leader quality for him, times two since he was looking for her to to teach HIM how to gain acceptance by people.

I'm sure there were so many ways that she felt compelled to help him out. Friendship, asking nicely, and the promise of a good reputation, and a good word if she did her job well...

You should have lead the pack. "where are you going" "commons room with *afc*, votes for election blah blah blah" "cool, hey *afc* good to meet you, what are you running for?"

Run some C+F on him infront of her, get him pumped up, tell him how good he's going to do, and how he's going to swindle the organization when he gets in. When he introduces a concept, say "save it for your speech", when he begins talking to people, put in good words for him... if the girl knows your trying, but are talking out of your ass, she would have eaten you alive after you were done talking up people with mr *afc*
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Very True flippinfreak!

When he came over, I lost my state. I wasn't the POSITIVE, FUN, and HAPPY Kintuz that I am!

I should've controlled the situation and have a good time!

I would have given you rep points for this one, but it says that I need to spread it before I can give it to you again!
 
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no worries about the rep points...

I'd rather the points reflect my actions:p

One person busted me for my insults to all but you;)

I want to have the lowest rep on this board:D
 
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could have told the guy that he is the man and he should do that stuff for himslelf.

or say something like 'sure you could go introduce him to your friends or you can come in my room and we can get FREAKY!..... no seriously..'





Kintuz said:
Very True flippinfreak!

When he came over, I lost my state. I wasn't the POSITIVE, FUN, and HAPPY Kintuz that I am!

I should've controlled the situation and have a good time!

I would have given you rep points for this one, but it says that I need to spread it before I can give it to you again!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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baha you got played... when im 10 feet away from a guranteed lay, believe you me, the girl isn't leaving for an afc. Get some game.
 
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