"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: ****blocked! Arrgh....

King Tuz

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This one's for you JC!

I won't go into super duper details for this one. I'll try to keep this short and sweet.

I'm talking to this HB and we are walking in the hallway (bottom level) of the dorm. We are about to go upstairs to her room and .....(I know what you were thinking you dirty dog you!)

When all of a sudden HB's AFC Friend yells her name. He comes over and asks her to introduce him to the other students in the commons room. Apparently, he is too shy to introduce HIMSELF. He wanted to get votes for some stupid student election.

Anywho, we walked to the commons room (AWAY from seduction location).

Recap: We are just about to walk upstairs to go to her room when AFC Friend calls her name. He comes over. I stand there doing NOTHING :cry: and he takes her in another direction as I follow. That gets a double :cry: :cry:!

I know I should have done something but WHAT?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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my school had elections today too.

I wonder if you go to my school...
 

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damn that sucks :( i dunno what i probably owuld have done. probably the same thing u did and i'd be wishing that i just went about my business and ran into her some other time
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Laaaaaaaammmmmmmeeeeeeee!

Some experienced advice would be appreciated!


*Shezz & JC*


Laaaaaaaaaattttttttteeeeeeeeeee!
 

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Kintuz, wanna know what I would have done?

I'd have done her job for her. I wouldn't have rubbed it in her face, unless she actually tried. If she was doing a good job, than I would... COMPETE with her.

When your seducing a girl, you got to up the emotions... I don't know how she could have so easily been taken away from you in the first place... Enough for her to be taken away by an AFC guy, but that's your problem to think of later.

You want to 'amp the attraction'. Just brainstorm how you would do that. hmmm?

What was she trying to do at the moment she was taken away? talking to you I assume, since that is what you told us. Than somebody comes to her and asks HER for help... hmmmm... think she got a sense of importance at that moment? She weighed her choices, and chose the AFC who gave her the opportunity to talk to more people, over YOU, who was just in the first stages of isolation.

As soon as she stood up to walk away, you should have pulled the jealousy card. ASK her where she is going. Plant the seeds of distrust, and her own disrespect to you inside of her mind. Make her realize that when she talked to you, she had an obligation to keep the conversation going...

"I'm going to help *AFC* get some votes in the elction."

Then you make a decision! Are you going to stay behind, and wait for her to come back? Or, are you going to lead her in the direction that she has chosen?

What you did was choose option two, but put the desperation spin into it. You FOLLOWED her to the commons room, Mr AFC had the leader quality for him, times two since he was looking for her to to teach HIM how to gain acceptance by people.

I'm sure there were so many ways that she felt compelled to help him out. Friendship, asking nicely, and the promise of a good reputation, and a good word if she did her job well...

You should have lead the pack. "where are you going" "commons room with *afc*, votes for election blah blah blah" "cool, hey *afc* good to meet you, what are you running for?"

Run some C+F on him infront of her, get him pumped up, tell him how good he's going to do, and how he's going to swindle the organization when he gets in. When he introduces a concept, say "save it for your speech", when he begins talking to people, put in good words for him... if the girl knows your trying, but are talking out of your ass, she would have eaten you alive after you were done talking up people with mr *afc*
 

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flippinfreak said:
Kintuz, wanna know what I would have done?

I'd have done her job for her. I wouldn't have rubbed it in her face, unless she actually tried. If she was doing a good job, than I would... COMPETE with her.

When your seducing a girl, you got to up the emotions... I don't know how she could have so easily been taken away from you in the first place... Enough for her to be taken away by an AFC guy, but that's your problem to think of later.

You want to 'amp the attraction'. Just brainstorm how you would do that. hmmm?

What was she trying to do at the moment she was taken away? talking to you I assume, since that is what you told us. Than somebody comes to her and asks HER for help... hmmmm... think she got a sense of importance at that moment? She weighed her choices, and chose the AFC who gave her the opportunity to talk to more people, over YOU, who was just in the first stages of isolation.

As soon as she stood up to walk away, you should have pulled the jealousy card. ASK her where she is going. Plant the seeds of distrust, and her own disrespect to you inside of her mind. Make her realize that when she talked to you, she had an obligation to keep the conversation going...

"I'm going to help *AFC* get some votes in the elction."

Then you make a decision! Are you going to stay behind, and wait for her to come back? Or, are you going to lead her in the direction that she has chosen?

What you did was choose option two, but put the desperation spin into it. You FOLLOWED her to the commons room, Mr AFC had the leader quality for him, times two since he was looking for her to to teach HIM how to gain acceptance by people.

I'm sure there were so many ways that she felt compelled to help him out. Friendship, asking nicely, and the promise of a good reputation, and a good word if she did her job well...

You should have lead the pack. "where are you going" "commons room with *afc*, votes for election blah blah blah" "cool, hey *afc* good to meet you, what are you running for?"

Run some C+F on him infront of her, get him pumped up, tell him how good he's going to do, and how he's going to swindle the organization when he gets in. When he introduces a concept, say "save it for your speech", when he begins talking to people, put in good words for him... if the girl knows your trying, but are talking out of your ass, she would have eaten you alive after you were done talking up people with mr *afc*

Very True flippinfreak!

When he came over, I lost my state. I wasn't the POSITIVE, FUN, and HAPPY Kintuz that I am!

I should've controlled the situation and have a good time!

I would have given you rep points for this one, but it says that I need to spread it before I can give it to you again!
 

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no worries about the rep points...

I'd rather the points reflect my actions:p

One person busted me for my insults to all but you;)

I want to have the lowest rep on this board:D
 

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could have told the guy that he is the man and he should do that stuff for himslelf.

or say something like 'sure you could go introduce him to your friends or you can come in my room and we can get FREAKY!..... no seriously..'





Kintuz said:
Very True flippinfreak!

When he came over, I lost my state. I wasn't the POSITIVE, FUN, and HAPPY Kintuz that I am!

I should've controlled the situation and have a good time!

I would have given you rep points for this one, but it says that I need to spread it before I can give it to you again!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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baha you got played... when im 10 feet away from a guranteed lay, believe you me, the girl isn't leaving for an afc. Get some game.
 
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