"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FR: Awesome homecoming night

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Man it was the shiz! I had such an awesome time. Now that I'm settled back down, lemme fill you guys in.

Well, the night started with a chaffeur by my grandpa to the dance. I felt good. I read some dj club material. I arrived on spot wearing a black pinstripe shirt and peacocked a tan driver hat. That hat came in handy. I saw some friends and gamed them, along with some foreign exchange students. We went in and as I stood in line I talked up everyone near me. Met some cool dudes and just had an awesome time.

I finally got in and headed to the dance floor. I danced a short bit with a HB 6 in a blue dress, grinding a bit and headed back out. My friend's sis, a HB 7.5 and her friend a HB 6,, were standing there. I grabbed them both and had two ladies hanging on my arms. Lol I won't forget the reactions I got from some of my buddies. haha. Well I danced with that group for a bit, mainly with the HB 6.

I left the dance floor and got a fresh of breath air. My old buddies were being wallflowers, so I headed back in. I grinded with another friend HB 6 in 5 minutes. I danced with her friend after that. I ended up opening a set and dancing a bit, then left.

I got some water and headed to game the other side of the dance floor lol. I met some friends who constantly asked me to breakdance. I did, but later. I gamed and gamed. Jeez I had fun. I was even stealing dates lol.

I got rejected 1/3 of the time. I rolled with the punches like a DJ should. These girls even ran away. haha. I even rejected some ladies lol. Wow I am so far from afcism. I saw some guys walking around, which is what I would have been doing.

Well, a dance circle was formed and I was the first one out. I'm not that good at breakdancing, but it was good enough. I've actually done this "dancing in front of ppl" before, on a cruise ship. So much fun being the life of the party!!!

I danced with a friend HB 8, who grinded a bit. I danced with her friends. Hell, I danced with every girl I knew. haha. I even started slow dancing with my friend's date and at a point had two girls slowdancing.

Oh, my hat that I peacocked isn't with me. Some chick stole it which I'll have to get back.

I used to have a oneitis. Not anymore. I was ****y as fvck too, struttin my stuff. Tonight was a real breakthrough. All the girls saw me gaming and even mentioned I'm totally different. I have to thank sosuave. They gave me the tools, and I used them. It's all on this website, and even in the community. But if you have to remember one thing, just have fun. Once you don't care about the outcome and just enjoy the experience of gaming, it'll come naturally. ****y funny, kino, Ec, all that.

Dammnnn tonight was fun!:cheer:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Nice work man.

What kinda lines did you do on the girls to get them to dance?
 

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"Let's dance" and I usually grabbed the girl
I also grabbed their hands and danced em off there
I also just started dancin into the sets

since it was a school dance, the xtreme stuff was off
http://www.clubbintechniques101.com/
such as this site
but the opener turn around has potential
 
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