"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FR: Awesome homecoming night

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Man it was the shiz! I had such an awesome time. Now that I'm settled back down, lemme fill you guys in.

Well, the night started with a chaffeur by my grandpa to the dance. I felt good. I read some dj club material. I arrived on spot wearing a black pinstripe shirt and peacocked a tan driver hat. That hat came in handy. I saw some friends and gamed them, along with some foreign exchange students. We went in and as I stood in line I talked up everyone near me. Met some cool dudes and just had an awesome time.

I finally got in and headed to the dance floor. I danced a short bit with a HB 6 in a blue dress, grinding a bit and headed back out. My friend's sis, a HB 7.5 and her friend a HB 6,, were standing there. I grabbed them both and had two ladies hanging on my arms. Lol I won't forget the reactions I got from some of my buddies. haha. Well I danced with that group for a bit, mainly with the HB 6.

I left the dance floor and got a fresh of breath air. My old buddies were being wallflowers, so I headed back in. I grinded with another friend HB 6 in 5 minutes. I danced with her friend after that. I ended up opening a set and dancing a bit, then left.

I got some water and headed to game the other side of the dance floor lol. I met some friends who constantly asked me to breakdance. I did, but later. I gamed and gamed. Jeez I had fun. I was even stealing dates lol.

I got rejected 1/3 of the time. I rolled with the punches like a DJ should. These girls even ran away. haha. I even rejected some ladies lol. Wow I am so far from afcism. I saw some guys walking around, which is what I would have been doing.

Well, a dance circle was formed and I was the first one out. I'm not that good at breakdancing, but it was good enough. I've actually done this "dancing in front of ppl" before, on a cruise ship. So much fun being the life of the party!!!

I danced with a friend HB 8, who grinded a bit. I danced with her friends. Hell, I danced with every girl I knew. haha. I even started slow dancing with my friend's date and at a point had two girls slowdancing.

Oh, my hat that I peacocked isn't with me. Some chick stole it which I'll have to get back.

I used to have a oneitis. Not anymore. I was ****y as fvck too, struttin my stuff. Tonight was a real breakthrough. All the girls saw me gaming and even mentioned I'm totally different. I have to thank sosuave. They gave me the tools, and I used them. It's all on this website, and even in the community. But if you have to remember one thing, just have fun. Once you don't care about the outcome and just enjoy the experience of gaming, it'll come naturally. ****y funny, kino, Ec, all that.

Dammnnn tonight was fun!:cheer:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nice work man.

What kinda lines did you do on the girls to get them to dance?
 

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"Let's dance" and I usually grabbed the girl
I also grabbed their hands and danced em off there
I also just started dancin into the sets

since it was a school dance, the xtreme stuff was off
http://www.clubbintechniques101.com/
such as this site
but the opener turn around has potential
 
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