"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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FR: asked a girl out from work... from a different department

verysuave

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when i said Different department, this is comparable to me working as a mechanic and this chick working in the pharmacy department.

To sum things up, i would always see this chick walk by.. so one day, i decided to make eye contact. I smiled at her.. she smiles back...i would catch her looking at me and when i do, she would look away and smile. I've always wanted to get her number but didnt want to follow her or go to her department just for that.

Finally yesterday, we ran into each other by chance in the hallway. (we were both in a hurry)

As soon as i walked pass her.. i turn around and says

me: "hey whats up, whats your name?"
hb:
hb: (she turns around and sticks her hand out rightaway)"raquel"
me: "im verysuave, do you sell drugs? im looking for some meth, pcp (she works as a pharmacist)
hb: no.. bla bla bla (smiles)
me: "i hardly get to talk to u. U work in a different department"
hb: "yeah, we work in that small corner of the building bla bla bla"
me: "so, whats your status? married, single, divorced, swinger?"
hb: "ummmmm dating" (she pulls out her phone before i even asked for her number)
me: "okay, i'd like to give you a call sometime. whats your number"
hb: "123 567 7890
me: "so, 7890... and your name again was.. Jen? (i knew it was rachel. Then i gave her that i was just joking look without saying it. She smiles. I leave, then she leaves)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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