"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FR: asked a girl out from work... from a different department

verysuave

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when i said Different department, this is comparable to me working as a mechanic and this chick working in the pharmacy department.

To sum things up, i would always see this chick walk by.. so one day, i decided to make eye contact. I smiled at her.. she smiles back...i would catch her looking at me and when i do, she would look away and smile. I've always wanted to get her number but didnt want to follow her or go to her department just for that.

Finally yesterday, we ran into each other by chance in the hallway. (we were both in a hurry)

As soon as i walked pass her.. i turn around and says

me: "hey whats up, whats your name?"
hb:
hb: (she turns around and sticks her hand out rightaway)"raquel"
me: "im verysuave, do you sell drugs? im looking for some meth, pcp (she works as a pharmacist)
hb: no.. bla bla bla (smiles)
me: "i hardly get to talk to u. U work in a different department"
hb: "yeah, we work in that small corner of the building bla bla bla"
me: "so, whats your status? married, single, divorced, swinger?"
hb: "ummmmm dating" (she pulls out her phone before i even asked for her number)
me: "okay, i'd like to give you a call sometime. whats your number"
hb: "123 567 7890
me: "so, 7890... and your name again was.. Jen? (i knew it was rachel. Then i gave her that i was just joking look without saying it. She smiles. I leave, then she leaves)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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