"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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So I was sitting in the front of the school after play practice and I see Becky, this girl who plays drums in the play. So from what I can remember, she came up to me and said "Hey" and that's how it started. Early in the convo I said something "Wow, Becky, you're really good drums, I mean at first I thought you only did the marching band type drums, but you can do more rock style drums well too" and she said "Thanks" to that. Then I don't remember quite how we got into this, but I recalled that she was in a band and asked if they were doing any shows and she said "Well, we might play at the carnival, but we might schedule a gig somewhere". So eventually, when we're really into the convo, I start talking about how me and her should jam sometime and I bring up the idea and she's thinking it's really cool. So I take it a step further saying "Yeah, we're definitely going to jam sometime. But I'll need your number so I can call you" and she's like "Okay". So then I take out my cellphone and she gives it to me.

After that we pretty much just chilled. I remember one time in the convo where we where talking about track and she told me how she did the field events. At one point I started to put my arm around her while we where talking about that and I said "So you trying to make it to states this year?" and she's like "That's the plan!". And yeah, most of the rest was simple fluff like she was talking about how her parents were supposed be there already to pick her up and how 5 minutes is 30 minutes to her parents and I told her how my parents are like that too. One time during this session of fluff talk I remember simply randomly saying "Hug!" and I hugged her and she hugged me back. Eventually, I asked her if I could see her drumsticks and she said yes and I just started jamming with them. Eventually, her parents got there and she said she had to go. After that, I hugged her before she went and then she left and said "See you tommorow". So that was that report.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HandyAndy said:
Really? I thought thats how it ended...
No but that's how you were reported.
 

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im_a_king said:
elstud, at least you didn't bring up rock band..i think you are better off talking about real music..its a lil more cool. also, why do you report everyone for everything..its just a forum
I really am surprised that he didn't. It looks like this convo actually went OK. Much better than his other ones at least.
 
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