"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ElStud

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So I was sitting in the front of the school after play practice and I see Becky, this girl who plays drums in the play. So from what I can remember, she came up to me and said "Hey" and that's how it started. Early in the convo I said something "Wow, Becky, you're really good drums, I mean at first I thought you only did the marching band type drums, but you can do more rock style drums well too" and she said "Thanks" to that. Then I don't remember quite how we got into this, but I recalled that she was in a band and asked if they were doing any shows and she said "Well, we might play at the carnival, but we might schedule a gig somewhere". So eventually, when we're really into the convo, I start talking about how me and her should jam sometime and I bring up the idea and she's thinking it's really cool. So I take it a step further saying "Yeah, we're definitely going to jam sometime. But I'll need your number so I can call you" and she's like "Okay". So then I take out my cellphone and she gives it to me.

After that we pretty much just chilled. I remember one time in the convo where we where talking about track and she told me how she did the field events. At one point I started to put my arm around her while we where talking about that and I said "So you trying to make it to states this year?" and she's like "That's the plan!". And yeah, most of the rest was simple fluff like she was talking about how her parents were supposed be there already to pick her up and how 5 minutes is 30 minutes to her parents and I told her how my parents are like that too. One time during this session of fluff talk I remember simply randomly saying "Hug!" and I hugged her and she hugged me back. Eventually, I asked her if I could see her drumsticks and she said yes and I just started jamming with them. Eventually, her parents got there and she said she had to go. After that, I hugged her before she went and then she left and said "See you tommorow". So that was that report.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HandyAndy said:
Really? I thought thats how it ended...
No but that's how you were reported.
 

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im_a_king said:
elstud, at least you didn't bring up rock band..i think you are better off talking about real music..its a lil more cool. also, why do you report everyone for everything..its just a forum
I really am surprised that he didn't. It looks like this convo actually went OK. Much better than his other ones at least.
 
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