d0g
Don Juan
Hey everyone,
I've been relatively proactive in speaking to girls and getting numbers over the past month or two. Sadly most of it has come to naught: a couple of few phone numbers, but no responses.
However, this evening, I hit pay dirt.
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Field Report
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The scene: a college grad school wine tasting
A saw a rather delightful girl make an appearance at the start, but didn't go to speak to her, since I'm still a ***** and assumed she'd be mobbed by guys when she arrived.
When, an hour in, she still didn't have any guys making progress with her, and I saw an opening, I went up to have a little chit chat with her. I played it cool, established some familiarity by chatting about some stuff that I knew about that she was interested in (where she went to college, Europe -- where she wants to move to, etc.).
I then performed a disappearing act, got some more wine, went to chat to some other girls and guy friends of mine. I went back to her, chatted a bit more, disappeared again, rinse and repeat.
The combination of going in-and-out plus establishing some rapport seemed to work. By the end of the evening she was hanging on to me, asking if we'll see each again, "because not doing so would be such a shame, after we had such a good time tonight". I got her number and gave her mine. She invited three dudes (me included) back to her place, but I declined. I isolated her from the crowd, and invited her over to my place, but she told me "I'm not that easy". I told her I didn't say anything about easy, and left.
Also: I should add that Southern girls are a ****load easier to do kino on than than the usual northern California girls I'm used to. Southern girls really make it easy for you.
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So, first of all, given what I've told you, do you have any suggestions for improvements on how I did things?
Most importantly: what's my optimal game plan from here?
It's now early Saturday morning. Should I call her on Saturday (today) afternoon? Call her on Sunday? Text her?
Thanks a lot guys.
Cheers,
d0g
I've been relatively proactive in speaking to girls and getting numbers over the past month or two. Sadly most of it has come to naught: a couple of few phone numbers, but no responses.
However, this evening, I hit pay dirt.
---
Field Report
------------
The scene: a college grad school wine tasting
A saw a rather delightful girl make an appearance at the start, but didn't go to speak to her, since I'm still a ***** and assumed she'd be mobbed by guys when she arrived.
When, an hour in, she still didn't have any guys making progress with her, and I saw an opening, I went up to have a little chit chat with her. I played it cool, established some familiarity by chatting about some stuff that I knew about that she was interested in (where she went to college, Europe -- where she wants to move to, etc.).
I then performed a disappearing act, got some more wine, went to chat to some other girls and guy friends of mine. I went back to her, chatted a bit more, disappeared again, rinse and repeat.
The combination of going in-and-out plus establishing some rapport seemed to work. By the end of the evening she was hanging on to me, asking if we'll see each again, "because not doing so would be such a shame, after we had such a good time tonight". I got her number and gave her mine. She invited three dudes (me included) back to her place, but I declined. I isolated her from the crowd, and invited her over to my place, but she told me "I'm not that easy". I told her I didn't say anything about easy, and left.
Also: I should add that Southern girls are a ****load easier to do kino on than than the usual northern California girls I'm used to. Southern girls really make it easy for you.
---
So, first of all, given what I've told you, do you have any suggestions for improvements on how I did things?
Most importantly: what's my optimal game plan from here?
It's now early Saturday morning. Should I call her on Saturday (today) afternoon? Call her on Sunday? Text her?
Thanks a lot guys.
Cheers,
d0g
