"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: Almost got a ONS with an asian lady

Vanilla

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I ****ed up but my chances aren't over yet.

Last night was so much fun regardless that I did not get laid. I got in the lounge after 9 so there was no cover charge, but the place was empty! I chatted up with my friend that I met there and after an hour it started getting packed. Then an older asian woman (about in her 40s) came in and turns out she was a friend of my friend, so he introduced us. At first she wasn't into a drink, just water, but as the night went on she finally had one of my drinks. (I think it helped when I gave her the cherries off my drinks) There was fluff talk for a while then the dance floor got good music so all the night I was dragging her around. LOTS of physical contact, she was grabbing my butt alot I noticed, but I couldn't manage to get any kissing in. My friend soon left even when I tried to get him hooked up with some blondes.

We both needed air, so we went outside for more fluff talk... this is where things started getting worse for me.

She noticed that I was really drunk (not really, I could remember almost everything she said), so she was worried about me getting home safely. I couldn't think up how to make something happen, so I just told her I'd be fine. She insisted on driving me to my home, but I feared that she'd just drop me off at home then I'd have to pick up my car somehow next morning.

I drove home more frustrated than drunk, but she's going to my friend's BBQ on Monday, so I'm hoping to try again. If not, she mentioned she'd bring a female friend of hers and I might hit on her.

Regardless, thoughts on how to do a better job? I didn't want her number, I wanted to get my d!ck wet
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How was this a "almost ONS" when you didn't even kiss her. This past weekend I was out clubbing with friends, made out with a few girls and there were nowhere near a ONS.
 

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Allurre said:
Heh, I wouldn't mess with a chick in her 40s, especially when half her age. Go for her friend, hopefully younger.
She was worse looking and maybe older who knows.

They still didn't budge even with weed and drinks last night. Talk about difficult! I'm moving on from those dead birds.
 

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LOL @ almost ONS.

You were no where near getting laid man. You might need a reality check.
 

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You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sofomore said:
LOL @ almost ONS.

You were no where near getting laid man. You might need a reality check.
AFAIC The reality check is that almost doesn't count when going after chicks! Almost only counts in horseshoes and grenade throwing! Almost had a chick is the equivalent of no, it didn't happen.

BTW you didn't kiss her. And you plan on striking cold iron. ROTFL.
 
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