Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

FR: Almost get busted by police getting BJ in car

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
13,223
Reaction score
14,142
Met up with this woman for the 3rd time tonight, she has had a very high IL from the beginning. Went for a short hike, she took me to get some ice cream and we parked across the street from the place in an abandoned lot. We go back to the car to eat the ice cream since it's cold out and we can't eat inside due to the Rona and after we are done we start making out. At some point I redirect her hand which was on my chest down lower and she is clearly enjoying herself and I can tell she is getting turned on by the change in her breathing. I reach inside her bra and and start massaging her big breasts(actually shockingly big based on what I saw...almost like her bra was suppressing them).

We stop for a few minutes and she is giving me the "I want to suck your c0ck" look. So I tell her "You better stop looking at me like that". She says "How am I looking at you?".

"Like you want to suck my c0ck!". She laughs and says "well...the thought did cross my mind..." And then I start kissing her again and put her hand back down there and this time she reaches inside and pulls it out and starts stroking it hard.

Within a few minutes she tells me to lean my seat back and is giving me one of the sloppiest most amazing BJs I have ever received. Like porn star style...

While this is going on out of the corner of my eye I see car lights pulling into this parking lot behind us in the side mirror. I tell her to get up and pull my pants up really quick. Luckily I did because a few minutes later a cop walks up and checks to make sure everything is OK. We tell him we just are trying to eat ice cream in the warmth of the car and he laughs and tells us to enjoy and leaves.

Once he leaves she goes to town once again and I end up finishing in her mouth after another 15 or 20 minutes and she swallows every drop. She told me I tasted good and next time she wants to find out about my skills(I had told her previously that I have skills she never knew even existed).

She wouldn't let me finger her...twice moving my hand away when I attempted, once while she was sucking me off. Grabbed her ass and spanked it a few times for good measure tho and it was equally as nice as her rack.

Planning to bang her next time I see her, will probably just invite her over to cook with me.
 

Romanemp22

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2020
Messages
955
Reaction score
901
Age
26
Ah men it's like I'm reading about myself. We have same patterns when it comes to making out with girls. Cars can be very tricky but I always tend to find the best possible place so no one can bother. Also not to kill your vibe but one girl also gave me the best possible bj I've ever had,pornstar thing but was awful in bedroom. I actually thought she would fvck like a pornstar, like she is giving bj but that wasn't the case. Anyway enjoy your time and do her good.
 

Desdinova

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 15, 2004
Messages
11,665
Reaction score
4,726
Yeah, I've had that happen before. The cops know WTF you're doing. When you park the car to get some action, do it in a residential area instead of an empty parking lot.
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
13,223
Reaction score
14,142
Ah men it's like I'm reading about myself. We have same patterns when it comes to making out with girls. Cars can be very tricky but I always tend to find the best possible place so no one can bother. Also not to kill your vibe but one girl also gave me the best possible bj I've ever had,pornstar thing but was awful in bedroom. I actually thought she would fvck like a pornstar, like she is giving bj but that wasn't the case. Anyway enjoy your time and do her good.
Honestly I wasn't even planning to do that...I actually followed her in my car from the place we were walking and she pulled in there. We got the ice cream and were outside for a while but the sun wa down and wind was picking up and it was fvcking cold so I was like "let's go eat this in the car so we can get some heat" and she was down.

Then it just kind of started happening where we got into an intense makeout and I just grabbed her hand and put it on my c0ck...honestly I have found that women almost universally love 2 things even if they don't accept it the first time you do it:

1) Grabbing their hand and putting it on your c0ck and whispering in their ear something like "You excite me" or "I would rock your fvcking world"

2) Confidently inviting them back to your place for a drink/show them something you talked about/hang out etc while on a date. Especially on the 1st or 2nd date.

I have had about half the woman balk at these when I tried them but I think I have banged all of them eventually with maybe 1 or 2 exceptions. It's almost like they really respect the attempt even if they shoot you down initially, they liked the confidence it took to actually go for it.

I have had a few of them even tell me afterwards that they liked that I asked them back to my place even tho they didn't accept it the first time I asked.

Those are pretty much 2 things I always try and incorporate within the first 2 dates now. Well this was the 3rd one so I guess I must be slipping a little haha.

Getting my mojo back...I was being too overtly sexual and coming off as desperate I think during my slump. I do much better when I just chill, have fun conversations and pick my spots to go sexual...like on a first date with this other woman I had we had a great time and fun convo, and then we got ice cream. I finished mine and she was still eating hers and she apologized she was so slow...and I said "Oh...no need to apologize...I am actually enjoying watching you lick that cone" with a smirk and a laugh....and she was cracked up laughing and was like "wow you just say what is on your mind don't you!" And I was like "Always!"

Invited her back on the 2nd date for a glass of wine and she said she would take a raincheck and had to get home...now have a 3rd date set up with her this Saturday to come over and cook dinner with me. Feels good to get back to doing what works for me, I was pressing too hard for a while on dates and it showed. Probably lost a few good prospects with high IL because of it too...
 

Romanemp22

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 30, 2020
Messages
955
Reaction score
901
Age
26
Honestly I wasn't even planning to do that...I actually followed her in my car from the place we were walking and she pulled in there. We got the ice cream and were outside for a while but the sun wa down and wind was picking up and it was fvcking cold so I was like "let's go eat this in the car so we can get some heat" and she was down.

Then it just kind of started happening where we got into an intense makeout and I just grabbed her hand and put it on my c0ck...honestly I have found that women almost universally love 2 things even if they don't accept it the first time you do it:

1) Grabbing their hand and putting it on your c0ck and whispering in their ear something like "You excite me" or "I would rock your fvcking world"

2) Confidently inviting them back to your place for a drink/show them something you talked about/hang out etc while on a date. Especially on the 1st or 2nd date.

I have had about half the woman balk at these when I tried them but I think I have banged all of them eventually with maybe 1 or 2 exceptions. It's almost like they really respect the attempt even if they shoot you down initially, they liked the confidence it took to actually go for it.

I have had a few of them even tell me afterwards that they liked that I asked them back to my place even tho they didn't accept it the first time I asked.

Those are pretty much 2 things I always try and incorporate within the first 2 dates now. Well this was the 3rd one so I guess I must be slipping a little haha.

Getting my mojo back...I was being too overtly sexual and coming off as desperate I think during my slump. I do much better when I just chill, have fun conversations and pick my spots to go sexual...like on a first date with this other woman I had we had a great time and fun convo, and then we got ice cream. I finished mine and she was still eating hers and she apologized she was so slow...and I said "Oh...no need to apologize...I am actually enjoying watching you lick that cone" with a smirk and a laugh....and she was cracked up laughing and was like "wow you just say what is on your mind don't you!" And I was like "Always!"

Invited her back on the 2nd date for a glass of wine and she said she would take a raincheck and had to get home...now have a 3rd date set up with her this Saturday to come over and cook dinner with me. Feels good to get back to doing what works for me, I was pressing too hard for a while on dates and it showed. Probably lost a few good prospects with high IL because of it too...
Exactly bro, I always do the same thing when making out with a girl and the thing is, 90 % of girls will enjoy that you put her hand on your d1ck. Some can say that they don't like that but deep down they fvckin love it. Girls love a man who do and say whatever is on his mind. Also, expressing his interest and not playing around because real man don't have time to waste. Besides what can I lose? She's not my gf I only saw her once so if she go with the flow, awesome if not, well at least i tried. That unexpected bjs are one of the best ones you get.
 

Lookatu

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2017
Messages
3,138
Reaction score
3,960
Age
51
She wouldn't let me finger her...twice moving my hand away when I attempted, once while she was sucking me off. Grabbed her ass and spanked it a few times for good measure tho and it was equally as nice as her rack.

Planning to bang her next time I see her, will probably just invite her over to cook with me.
Maybe she was a tranny? LOL J/k

One thing I've learned is to keep my nails nicely manicured and clean and smooth. Girls really love that and appreciate it. There's one video I watched that talked about it. If you rub your finger nail on the inside of your mouth and it doesn't feel smooth, you got more filing to do. :up:


Getting my mojo back...I was being too overtly sexual and coming off as desperate I think during my slump.

Feels good to get back to doing what works for me, I was pressing too hard for a while on dates and it showed. Probably lost a few good prospects with high IL because of it too...
Glad you found your rhythm. I used to always go for 1st date bangs and like you, found just chilling and getting them more comfortable over the 2nd or 3rd date to work better.
 

RickTheToad

Moderator
Joined
Apr 21, 2018
Messages
6,479
Reaction score
5,040
Location
Bridgeport, CT
Met up with this woman for the 3rd time tonight, she has had a very high IL from the beginning. Went for a short hike, she took me to get some ice cream and we parked across the street from the place in an abandoned lot. We go back to the car to eat the ice cream since it's cold out and we can't eat inside due to the Rona and after we are done we start making out. At some point I redirect her hand which was on my chest down lower and she is clearly enjoying herself and I can tell she is getting turned on by the change in her breathing. I reach inside her bra and and start massaging her big breasts(actually shockingly big based on what I saw...almost like her bra was suppressing them).

We stop for a few minutes and she is giving me the "I want to suck your c0ck" look. So I tell her "You better stop looking at me like that". She says "How am I looking at you?".

"Like you want to suck my c0ck!". She laughs and says "well...the thought did cross my mind..." And then I start kissing her again and put her hand back down there and this time she reaches inside and pulls it out and starts stroking it hard.

Within a few minutes she tells me to lean my seat back and is giving me one of the sloppiest most amazing BJs I have ever received. Like porn star style...

While this is going on out of the corner of my eye I see car lights pulling into this parking lot behind us in the side mirror. I tell her to get up and pull my pants up really quick. Luckily I did because a few minutes later a cop walks up and checks to make sure everything is OK. We tell him we just are trying to eat ice cream in the warmth of the car and he laughs and tells us to enjoy and leaves.

Once he leaves she goes to town once again and I end up finishing in her mouth after another 15 or 20 minutes and she swallows every drop. She told me I tasted good and next time she wants to find out about my skills(I had told her previously that I have skills she never knew even existed).

She wouldn't let me finger her...twice moving my hand away when I attempted, once while she was sucking me off. Grabbed her ass and spanked it a few times for good measure tho and it was equally as nice as her rack.

Planning to bang her next time I see her, will probably just invite her over to cook with me.
3 dates for a BJ??
 

logicallefty

Moderator
Joined
Apr 26, 2006
Messages
6,076
Reaction score
5,257
Age
50
Location
Northeast Florida, USA
In my old city I was a cop in there was a popular spot on the edge Of town by a park where people used to get busy. It was on a 4 mile square. Whenever I would bust them I would say “look I’m going to drive around the 4 mile Square and you all better be finished and gone by the time I get back.” I always wondered how many people finished the deed after I did that and how many dates I ruined. I never once had any of the couples still be there after I drove around the 4 miles tho!
 

BackInTheGame78

Moderator
Joined
Sep 10, 2014
Messages
13,223
Reaction score
14,142
In my old city I was a cop in there was a popular spot on the edge Of town by a park where people used to get busy. It was on a 4 mile square. Whenever I would bust them I would say “look I’m going to drive around the 4 mile Square and you all better be finished and gone by the time I get back.” I always wondered how many people finished the deed after I did that and how many dates I ruined. I never once had any of the couples still be there after I drove around the 4 miles tho!
Haha, man that is too much pressure...I take a long time to blast off under normal circumstances, I can't imagine trying to do it under time pressure!
 
Top