"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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FR: Allie.

ElStud

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So yeah, today I approached this girl named Allie and her friend. This is what it went like:

Me: Hey, Allie.
Her: Hey, Mike.
[I start making eye contact with her friend]
Me: Aren't you going to introduce me to your friend?
Girl2: Oh, I'm Alexis.
Me: I see yeah, you're friend pms's a lot, like once I was just sitting on the coach and she goes "Move your fcking legs!".
Allie: I'm nice.
Me: Oh really, is she telling the truth?
Girl2: Yes.
Me: Yeah, when I first saw you thought you were one of those who would put on that sort of fake smile at first and then show that you're really mean.
Girl2: No, I'm nice.
Me: Well, yesterday I was walking around...

Blah blah... story...

Me: And I slapped this girls ass.
Her: You did, that's not nice.
[Ignoring her]
Me: Yeah, so I basically slapped her ass.

[Eventually this fight between this one kid happens and it comes towards the end of the period and I talk to her again]

Me: You know that girl who's ass I told you I slapped, that's her.
Her: Oh my god, how could you do that she's my friend!
Haha, I don't know, I think this chicks crazy. Snow Plowman tells me it's a bunch of sh*t test but I don't know. I even talked to my friends later about this and they said it was stupid the way she reacted.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ElStud

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superchill89 said:
Yeah, it's called not replying to everything the girl says, you should try it perhaps it would help your game. She thinks it mean, that's her reality. My reality is I playfully tapped the girl on the ass. And I don't have time to argue with her over why it's mean, so I just ignore it. Besides, if I don't ignore I get sucked into her frame.
 

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ElStud said:
Me: I see yeah, you're friend pms's a lot, like once I was just sitting on the coach and she goes "Move your fcking legs!".
Might wanna fix that typo >_>

Dude what is your purpose of approaching? If you want a girlfriend or to get anywhere with a girl you need to make the next move!

Good job with the approaching by the way.
 
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