"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FR: Allie.

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So yeah, today I approached this girl named Allie and her friend. This is what it went like:

Me: Hey, Allie.
Her: Hey, Mike.
[I start making eye contact with her friend]
Me: Aren't you going to introduce me to your friend?
Girl2: Oh, I'm Alexis.
Me: I see yeah, you're friend pms's a lot, like once I was just sitting on the coach and she goes "Move your fcking legs!".
Allie: I'm nice.
Me: Oh really, is she telling the truth?
Girl2: Yes.
Me: Yeah, when I first saw you thought you were one of those who would put on that sort of fake smile at first and then show that you're really mean.
Girl2: No, I'm nice.
Me: Well, yesterday I was walking around...

Blah blah... story...

Me: And I slapped this girls ass.
Her: You did, that's not nice.
[Ignoring her]
Me: Yeah, so I basically slapped her ass.

[Eventually this fight between this one kid happens and it comes towards the end of the period and I talk to her again]

Me: You know that girl who's ass I told you I slapped, that's her.
Her: Oh my god, how could you do that she's my friend!
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Haha, I don't know, I think this chicks crazy. Snow Plowman tells me it's a bunch of sh*t test but I don't know. I even talked to my friends later about this and they said it was stupid the way she reacted.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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superchill89 said:
lol wow
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Yeah, it's called not replying to everything the girl says, you should try it perhaps it would help your game. She thinks it mean, that's her reality. My reality is I playfully tapped the girl on the ass. And I don't have time to argue with her over why it's mean, so I just ignore it. Besides, if I don't ignore I get sucked into her frame.
 
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ElStud said:
Me: I see yeah, you're friend pms's a lot, like once I was just sitting on the coach and she goes "Move your fcking legs!".
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Might wanna fix that typo >_>

Dude what is your purpose of approaching? If you want a girlfriend or to get anywhere with a girl you need to make the next move!

Good job with the approaching by the way.
 
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