"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FR: Allie.

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So yeah, today I approached this girl named Allie and her friend. This is what it went like:

Me: Hey, Allie.
Her: Hey, Mike.
[I start making eye contact with her friend]
Me: Aren't you going to introduce me to your friend?
Girl2: Oh, I'm Alexis.
Me: I see yeah, you're friend pms's a lot, like once I was just sitting on the coach and she goes "Move your fcking legs!".
Allie: I'm nice.
Me: Oh really, is she telling the truth?
Girl2: Yes.
Me: Yeah, when I first saw you thought you were one of those who would put on that sort of fake smile at first and then show that you're really mean.
Girl2: No, I'm nice.
Me: Well, yesterday I was walking around...

Blah blah... story...

Me: And I slapped this girls ass.
Her: You did, that's not nice.
[Ignoring her]
Me: Yeah, so I basically slapped her ass.

[Eventually this fight between this one kid happens and it comes towards the end of the period and I talk to her again]

Me: You know that girl who's ass I told you I slapped, that's her.
Her: Oh my god, how could you do that she's my friend!
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Haha, I don't know, I think this chicks crazy. Snow Plowman tells me it's a bunch of sh*t test but I don't know. I even talked to my friends later about this and they said it was stupid the way she reacted.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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superchill89 said:
lol wow
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Yeah, it's called not replying to everything the girl says, you should try it perhaps it would help your game. She thinks it mean, that's her reality. My reality is I playfully tapped the girl on the ass. And I don't have time to argue with her over why it's mean, so I just ignore it. Besides, if I don't ignore I get sucked into her frame.
 
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ElStud said:
Me: I see yeah, you're friend pms's a lot, like once I was just sitting on the coach and she goes "Move your fcking legs!".
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Might wanna fix that typo >_>

Dude what is your purpose of approaching? If you want a girlfriend or to get anywhere with a girl you need to make the next move!

Good job with the approaching by the way.
 
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