"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FR: all the way and then...

DonJuanabe

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Met an HB 6 online and set up a date with her. She is recently divorced and not looking for heavy stuff. Nice back and forth while we eat, it's going well, some slight suggestive verbal escalation on my part.

Dinner ends and I tell her I'll give her a lift home (otherwise it's public transit for her). At first she declines but then accepts. We walk to my car, I'm being slightly suggestive in a teasing way, we get in, and just before we start driving she grabs me and we make out.

I get myself invited in and over the course of an hour and a half: making out leads to massage which leads to her bed which leads to her orgasm. Right as she's about to go down on me a thought comes to mind... oneitis and her boyfriend.

So much for me getting off.

Four-and-a-half months and I'm still not over the situation. Damn it.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shrinkage. :(

What's the cure for oneitis of an HB 7.5? An HB 8? I cannot continue on like this.
 

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ugh psychological sh1t is a b1tch aint it? That sucks man, the best way to get over someone is just to forget about them. Time heals all, could be months or even years :\
 
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