"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FR: all the way and then...

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DonJuanabe

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Met an HB 6 online and set up a date with her. She is recently divorced and not looking for heavy stuff. Nice back and forth while we eat, it's going well, some slight suggestive verbal escalation on my part.

Dinner ends and I tell her I'll give her a lift home (otherwise it's public transit for her). At first she declines but then accepts. We walk to my car, I'm being slightly suggestive in a teasing way, we get in, and just before we start driving she grabs me and we make out.

I get myself invited in and over the course of an hour and a half: making out leads to massage which leads to her bed which leads to her orgasm. Right as she's about to go down on me a thought comes to mind... oneitis and her boyfriend.

So much for me getting off.

Four-and-a-half months and I'm still not over the situation. Damn it.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Shrinkage. :(

What's the cure for oneitis of an HB 7.5? An HB 8? I cannot continue on like this.
 
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ugh psychological sh1t is a b1tch aint it? That sucks man, the best way to get over someone is just to forget about them. Time heals all, could be months or even years :\
 
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