“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FR; 3 alphas, 2 chicks, and posibly a sloppy second.

Aragon034

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First off, this was hte best night in my DJ careerr yet.

Secondly, This is not braggin, this is inspration for the noobys here. This is what happens when you become a ****ing alpha.

thirdyl, i am stilll ****ing tankked.

-Friend invites me to housewarming/b-day party. it's at his new house and i havn't seen him in weeks.

holy sweet mother of god, it was me, 5 other guys (2 alpha dudes, one pure AFC, one decent dude and my buddy who had his GF there)

The rest, i **** you not 14 of them were hot raver/rocker chicks and one fat chick, mostly asisan, a few white chicks.. About 20 peopel total.

i get there, introducetions, very social, very comfortable, immediate rapport. i already knoe a few people there so icwbreaking is easy.

convo is some **** bout supernatural the show and random other ****. i've got a coke bottle of morgans an dcoke so i'm good. then everybody else decides to start drinking.

4-5 jagerbombs and other assprted drinks later, we're downstairs in my buddie's room which he has all customised with a fog machine, laser show, blacklights, the ****in works. Awesome place.

from a house party it turns into a rave! most of the azns and one white chick were there and one of the alpha dudes plus afc!

**** CLUBS! this was ****ing godly! and all the time the AFC dude was of dancing by himself with a giatn glowstick!

oh man, my head was fuking spinning, i've got a perfect ass in my lap grinding and another hugging me. other alpha dude is having the same

i talk to alpha and we decide to wing each other, best ****ing idea ever! switching girls, multiple grind trains! it was beter than a real rave!

i dont know how long it was, but eventauly we head back uptairs and more booze. i start gaming the one azn givin me most IOIS, she's tight looking as hell,


we talk about random ****, i'm escalating and she's not ressiisting much, i manage to isolate and i gotta ****ing thank dicarlo escaltaion ladder, that ****ing works!!!

next hting i know i'm on second floor making out heavy,

FUnny ****! i pull my dress shirt off halfway and say "Help me!" and she helps me take both shirts off!

biggest thingi think is that stomcahc to stomach thing, after that no resistance whatso ever.

30 mins of humping and we've cumed, noobs, memo****ingrise that sex guide on thsi site. Best help evar!

i redress, head back down and rejoin party, i game one of the white chicsk hard and the funniest thing happnes!

i go to washroom and as i come back, AFC dude is trying to sit next to her on teh floor, and he dropps his ****ing beer and splashes it all over white chick!

I start laughiung uncontrolllably and screaming "HAHHAHAH i GIVE that an 8 out of 10!!!! Someone put tha ton youtube!!!"

She's FURIOUBS with this guy! she smacks him, runs into me with a hug and i say something like "Get off of me! This is a 100 dollar shirt!" she says "i'm soaked!" i say something like "Then take it off!" and she does.

AFC dude is ****ing CRYING! he's BEGGIN her to forgive him and she's throwing punches at him. i break it up and go "Wait wait!!! Round 1! FIGHT!!!"

I end up giving her my shirt since she's just in her bra and she's cuddleds up to me, i end up taking her downstairs to buddys room and ****ing her there for a bit.

afte r this, i finally head back upstais, AFC dude has no idea what i jsut did and he's on the floor bieng consoled by some of the other chicks., he's literally bawling and saying **** like "SHe hates me now! I've nown her for 3 years and shes furious at me!! I gotta talk to her! apologize!!"

I'm so tanked i'm starting to cry from laughing, my buddy has to pull me aside and yell at me to calm me down. the me and the other aalpha guys all tell him to forget it and chill, he's sobbin and still majorly depressed. i can't help bu laugh and go talk to other chivks.

AFVC goes and talks to her not once, but TWICE!!! BOTH time she gets pissed at him for saying **** like " i just want you to forgive me!" and she's like "It's ok!" and he insists" NO please i'm sorry!" so she says "Now you're pissing me off again!"

later me and the 2 Alphas were shooting hte **** at the minibar we had and just laugjhing our goddamn assses off. both of them were going home wiht their respective girls and are cheering me on with more booze (i had a funel!)

Finally, i've had like an unknonw amount of shots and all my rum, i've ****ed 2 girls within an hours of each other, and i've witnesed masssive AFCness, i finally grab my **** and say adiue.

i got every girl's # and facebook, and even the guys were like "you're a cool mutha****a!" and got their #s and facebook.


Highligths of hte night.

The best was the white chick at the end she decides to let AFC dood escort her back home cuz she lives different direction from hte rest of us, i'm at the door and as she's leaveing i yell at her to get he ass back here. she leaves the dude in the middle of the ****ing deserted road, comes back and i tell her "Put your number here' and hand her my phone.

She does, gives me a hug and kiss, then goes back

we mercilessly teese my budddys girlfriend, somone brought some almonds out and later he's like "Those are mine!" and i'm like "OMG! We're eating his nuts! Aren't you jealous!?" to her! so ****ing funny

girl gets UV paint on her pants, i say it's an aliens cumshot and hilalrity insues.

AFC dude is begging me wha tto do about hte beer shti, i end ujp sending him outside to look for some dude hwo doesn't exist!

one of the alphas was an army signal officer, we end up play boxing and we beat the **** out of each otehr and laugh it off.



Nooobs! this is what it ****ing means to be alpha, i've bnever been so proud and happy!

edit:

fukc i forgeto the last part, the AFC dude called me after and said he's trying ot bone white chick. i couldn't tell him what i did :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i dunno man, he sounds young and excitable for sure, but good going nethertheless. I gotta say though, "what it means to be alpha" might also be replaced by "what it means to be drunk".
 

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It's what it feels like to be an AFC just stepping into his Alpha shoes...and drunk...very drunk.

I'm glad you had a good time really I am. Sounds like you had a blast.

What you should do now is utilize this feeling. Take it, concentrate on it. Now go try to get some girls numbers now that you're sober (after the hangover dies down that is...)

what it means to be alpha" might also be replaced by "what it means to be drunk
:yes: Seemingly. Alcohol can be an extremely effective tool if ingested by either you or your target. Buuut, alcohol can also make you...lol well.

Now you need to try something. Tonight go out and try to have another "hte best night in my DJ careerr yet". Subtract alcohol and see what happens, just as an experiment. Try to keep that same attitude you had above.

Of course it's your game, play it how you see fit.
 

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Wow, i was trashed.

WaRpEd said:
It's what it feels like to be an AFC just stepping into his Alpha shoes...and drunk...very drunk.

I'm glad you had a good time really I am. Sounds like you had a blast.

What you should do now is utilize this feeling. Take it, concentrate on it. Now go try to get some girls numbers now that you're sober (after the hangover dies down that is...)

:yes: Seemingly. Alcohol can be an extremely effective tool if ingested by either you or your target. Buuut, alcohol can also make you...lol well.

Now you need to try something. Tonight go out and try to have another "hte best night in my DJ careerr yet". Subtract alcohol and see what happens, just as an experiment. Try to keep that same attitude you had above.

Of course it's your game, play it how you see fit.
That makes alot of sense man, i'm gonng do that. i've already got a few day 2's in the works.

if anything the booze just lowered my inhibitions to nothing so my thoughts became my actions almost instantly,

NOT something i wanna do often though, This hangover is murderous.

Single_Sucks.

Young and exciteable? :p usually not but raving is something iused to do in my teenage years so it was more nostalgia.

As for

what it means to be alpha" might also be replaced by "what it means to be drunk
i can't disagree, but i don't fully agree. simply because when i was younger, booze turned me into a pvssy AFC.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Okay so you got laid at a party good. I want to see you actually get a lay off of cold approaching. Until you can do that, don't give advice in any of my threads. Basically if you don't cold approach and get laid off of that, don't talk sh*t or try and give advice to a guy who DOES cold approach. And yeah, getting girls at parties really is 1000 times easier just because of the environment and girls being more willing than in daygame. Hell, if I actually went to parties I could get laid that way too.

But atleast you had fun man, that's what's important. But I'm just saying if you don't cold approach, don't hate on someone who does.
 

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ElStud said:
Okay so you got laid at a party good. I want to see you actually get a lay off of cold approaching. Until you can do that, don't give advice in any of my threads. Basically if you don't cold approach and get laid off of that, don't talk sh*t or try and give advice to a guy who DOES cold approach. And yeah, getting girls at parties really is 1000 times easier just because of the environment and girls being more willing than in daygame. Hell, if I actually went to parties I could get laid that way too.

But atleast you had fun man, that's what's important. But I'm just saying if you don't cold approach, don't hate on someone who does.
How about you dont post ANYTHING until you get at least a hug. You dont go to parties cause youre a tool, a big tool.
 

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How about you dont post ANYTHING until you get at least a hug. You dont go to parties cause youre a tool, a big tool.
He sure is pretty good at getting high-fives. :rolleyes:
 

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ElStud said:
Okay so you got laid at a party good. I want to see you actually get a lay off of cold approaching. Until you can do that, don't give advice in any of my threads. Basically if you don't cold approach and get laid off of that, don't talk sh*t or try and give advice to a guy who DOES cold approach. And yeah, getting girls at parties really is 1000 times easier just because of the environment and girls being more willing than in daygame. Hell, if I actually went to parties I could get laid that way too.

But atleast you had fun man, that's what's important. But I'm just saying if you don't cold approach, don't hate on someone who does.
girls dont like jealousy
 

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The AFC dude could have got laid as well, but his vibe was all negative. His energy levels were lower than the group.

Its all in the vibe. Yours was fun, crazy, positive, alpha. Your energy level was off the roof.

I'm a fan of MM, so I'll also point out that you demonstrated "leader of men" and "preselection" characteristics live in front of the girls. That was more that enough to get laid.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh wow, this thread was epic until ElStud decided to troll it.

Aragon, that sounds like the most epic night ever. I'm trying to internalize the escalation ladder too, will post some FR when I get it down.
 

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smoothtalker72 said:
girls dont like jealousy
Anyway. I'm just telling him to not give advice to people who do cold approach if he doesn't get lays from cold approaching. It's like trying to teach someone to play an instrument when you don't know crap about that instrument. And trolling? Ah I see a double standard here. I criticize somebody it's trolling. You guys criticize me it's advice. Now you know how I feel when you guys post BS in my threads.

If I post an FR about a party where I KNOW the girls, you're free to criticize that. But until you start getting lays from cold approaching, don't criticize/make fun of/hate on someone who IS actually cold approaching.
 

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MikeYikes122 said:
He sure is pretty good at getting high-fives. :rolleyes:

lmfao so true. elstud once again you have made a mug of urself

p.s noone invites you to parties cos ur a faggot, and your only interactions with girls are ones where they see u as some mental patient
 

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Thanks guys, from what i remember of writing the original post what i was trying to say was that this is the kind of stuff that happens when you keep your social network open. Night game is alot easier than Day game (which is what i primarily focus on anyways) so it's a good place for noobs to practice stuff they've learned, and for me to drink god knows how much (my buddy estimates it at around a 60's worth cuz i'd drink anything put in front of me)

Epic is the right word for it, my facebook and voice mail exploded this whole day :p

i've got 3 day 2s already lined up, 2 coffee dates and an action date.

Guys, let ElStud have his say, he's entitlted to that. But perhaps i should explain in detail so he can fine tune it.

1: out of the 20 people there, i knew 4 total before hand, everybody else was new to me including the 2 chicks i banged,

2: I feel cold approaching is more for people who for whatever reason don't have as big a social network as others. That doesn't mean i don't cold approach.

3: i haven't hooked up with anybody i've cold approached yet, but after day 2's i've hooked up with THEIR friends during some social event.

Since you think of it as playing instruments, lets elaborate that.

A Violinist specialist probably can't play the guitar, but they know musical theory, chord progression, and how notes and chords sound to make a final piece of music.

The same way even though i don't have your # of cold approaches, the times i have done it and succeed (You think i post everything here?) as well as my success with regular day and night game have given me further insight into both aspects.

That's why i feel i can give you advice, if you had just refused/ignored My and Mine Alone advice, i wouldn't think twice of it, but 95% of the people here gave you the same advice, so i feel quite comfortable with what i've done since.

Cheers guys! i'm off to bed, I'm still feeling like **** (jagerbombs are murderous)
 

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I'm just telling him to not give advice to people who do cold approach if he doesn't get lays from cold approaching.
So you're going to stop giving advice then? *check my Sig*
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SharinganUser said:
So you're going to stop giving advice then? *check my Sig*
Nope, see the thing is, I give advice on sh*t I've actually done or from what other people in the community who HAVE gotten laid have told me. I have a lot of proof that I DO get numbers and thus I'm in a position to give advice to other dudes about number closing. However, I haven't gotten a sucessful kiss close yet, so I couldn't give legit advice on that subject. Same thing if someone was asking about approaching and opening and all that stuff, I could give advice on that because I have successfully approached and opened a ton of sets and will continue to do so in the future.
 

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ElStud said:
Okay so you got laid at a party good. I want to see you actually get a lay off of cold approaching. Until you can do that, don't give advice in any of my threads. Basically if you don't cold approach and get laid off of that, don't talk sh*t or try and give advice to a guy who DOES cold approach. And yeah, getting girls at parties really is 1000 times easier just because of the environment and girls being more willing than in daygame. Hell, if I actually went to parties I could get laid that way too.

But atleast you had fun man, that's what's important. But I'm just saying if you don't cold approach, don't hate on someone who does.
You talk as if you actually GET invited to parties and choose not to go. Hey, by your logic, I've got laid off a cold approach, I guess this makes me qualified to tell you to shut the f*ck up. My cold approaching outstrips your immensly, from my position, you're sh*t at it, so stop making out you're some sort of b!tch-hunter.
 

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WesCottII said:
You talk as if you actually GET invited to parties and choose not to go. Hey, by your logic, I've got laid off a cold approach, I guess this makes me qualified to tell you to shut the f*ck up. My cold approaching outstrips your immensly, from my position, you're sh*t at it, so stop making out you're some sort of b!tch-hunter.
I never said anything like that, haha, stop putting words in my mouth. And no it doesn't qualify you, because you're still an assh*le. Even after that there's the question of if you get consistantly laid. All irrelavent though because I was simply telling him that if he doesn't get laid off of cold approaches, he shouldn't try and help OTHERS who do cold approach get laid off of them. Still though, even if you do get laid off of cold approaches I can tell that YOU particularly YOU go up to women fake as hell. Cause if you acted like the assh*le you really were, you would get zero ass. Seduction aint about being fake. The Don Juan mindset aint about being fake.

Or are you telling me you go up to women and act like the assh*le you are here?
 

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Ah ElStud, me being of sound body and mind give you FULL permission to post any thoughts opinions or critisisms! I even give you permission to troll if you want.

Because you know what you are to me? you're the tall and skinny 130lbs dude at my gym wearing child sized underarmor that's telling me "Oh yeah! 1 month and i've gained 10 pounds and my arms are ripped! I can curl the FIFTEENS now!" while i'm standing there at 5'6'' and 170 pounds wondering who was so cruel as to actually advise you to "be yourself".

You are a mentally and socially challenged nerd who is finally talking to girls and are so scared of what you might be able to accomplish you have to rationalize it all away. And since you won't listen to reason/logic/other guys who have been through the same and succeeded. nothing you say has any merit whatsoever anymore.

You also maintain the utterly idiotic idea that if i don't post every interaction i have with women on SoSuave that i'm obviously a KBJ and am talking out of my ass.

Dude, you're the number 3 reason i come here at all anymore. You're by far the number 2 reason i post :D
 

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ELStud, you haven't been laid, so don't give advice on how to get laid from cold approaching. In fact stop giving advice altogether.

Taking advice from you would be like learning karate from someone who never won a fight.

Just because your friends know how to get laid, that doesn't make you an expert. It doesn't give you any credit at all.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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